Go on their website and pick some. Go to the SW store and pick some. Simple. Done.

You have to go to the store anyway to get the paint.

You're the only one who is ever going to see it, so pick what you like. This is not a dilemma of any sort. It's a simple, minor purchase that millions of people make every year. Why can't you pick the color yourself?

SW 6261 Swanky Gray has a hue value of 300 which means it has a red-purple tone, though it appears gray.

SW 6547 Silver Peony also has a hue value of 300.

SW 6268 Veiled violet is lighter gray with a hue value of 329 so it is more reddish. The purple is more visible in this gray.

SW 6564 Lite Lavender has a hue value of 309. It also has more color to it.

Below is how these colors look in the company's ColorSnap Visualizer, but it's always best to paint samples on your walls before committing.

Buy the tiniest amount of wallpaint first, paint a 2x1' hardboard and place it in your room. Check it on different times a day. And move it around. This way you'll find out if this is THE color for you, as colors in store/online may look very different at home.

I kind of have to agree with tatts there really is no way for us to know what she means and no matter how many colors we list they still need to be checked for her space.

Obviously I know to try them on my wall. Wondering if there were any popular colors that met my criteria.

Well, that's not what you asked.

But why do you care if it's popular? Nobody will see it but you. Just go to the store and buy what you like.