Counters and floor will be the big ticket items. ... appliance upgrade is a part of normal “replacing things” in any home. But the floor and counters hopefully will be a one time event for you ... thus, id think how you want this to work . the nicest for me would be hardwood and a great area rug under the table. I’d measure and go look for that first.

thank you. any suggestions for color/style of wood floor

What is that wood floor going to butt up against in other rooms?

Solid color paint to cover the stenciling. Light counters. New stainless dishwasher too. Eliminate valance NS swag over window.

hall is tile, other rooms are carpet. Thinking about replacing all with wood

remove both valances by table and above sink?

any suggestions for island?

Redo the island . Get 18 or 21 in depth drawer stacks . Better furniture toe kicks . portobello paint color for island ( nice w other cabs) and works w a little more grayed floor stain once that gets some focus.

any ideas where I can get an island

Do you even need the island? I don't have one mostly because I bought it flipped and I suspect the previous flippers didn't want to spend the money. I'm so glad they didn't; my kitchen is so spacious and easy to move around in. Declutter and you may find you don't need the storage. I would focus on counter tops (I do like the color though they seem to be a little worse for the wear), walls (off white or other oak friendly color), finish purchasing stainless appliances. I think you may find that the floors aren't that bad. They are a neutral after all. I guess if you remove the island you will need to redo the floors though. Sigh...

I would miss the island. The butcher block top is my main meal prep area. The drawers are great for storing large items., blender, mixer, panini makee...

Your perimeter cabinets look fine. Maybe consider a new island surround around your existing island painted a new color. Definitely new counters and backsplash will brighten things up. But like herb suggested focus on your floors first - a lot of research is needed especially if considering for the adjacent areas as well. Go to your local flooring pros and get them in to determine if an engineered or solid wood is best for your conditions. Really I can’t stress this enough - floors first as it’s the base of everything you do.

I had engineered wood floors In the kitchen and hated them. Terrible wear under the refrigerator and near the dog’s bowl. Tile is much more practical. Your tiles should not be difficult to match if you remove the island. Otherwise, consider tile that looks like wood. I have that now and absolutely love it!

Echoing the comments that your floor is first. I have engineered wood throughout the house, including the kitchen, and it’s fine. I’ve always had wood because tile is too hard on my back. I think a light wood floor would open up your whole house. This is a big cost so do that first, then decisions about decor can be made. Your cabinets are in great condition!

Bring a cabinet door with you when looking for flooring. They don't need to match, but you will want them to look good together. Once you have flooring figured out, then start figuring out colors for the island and all the other details. Post on here and so many of the pros will help!

Your cabinets are really pretty and I'm glad you're keeping them!

this is the current floor. kitchen definitely needs replacing.

dinning room laminate wood and great room carpet is very worn

I hope new flooring throughout is in the budget? In meantime I'd keep the tile. I'd put my money into a lighter counter top, backsplash, and, if the island is a good size and location - trim it to mirror cabinets and paint. Maybe cabinet hardware. If you upgrade the light fixtures, remove valances, new rugs and paint out stencils it would look modern and fresh.

I'm looking forward to seeing your updated space!