I like the black you chose, it doesn't clash at all IMO.

I also wouldn't get two, the dresser on the left of the bed plus a nightstand plus the bed and another nightstand will be too many furniture pieces on that side of the room. another option would be a floating nightstand on the right to help break up all the legs.

Can you take pics of all 4 walls of the room, i ask as I am wondering if the tall dresser could go on a different wall perhaps?

Sorry forgot to mention that the tall dresser will definitely be moved to a different wall once we purchase nightstands.

Ok great, so now why do you not like the black one you tried... when you say it clashes, can you explain why you think it clashes?

To me, the black and gold with your black mirror and pillows looks just fabulous.

I think this article about decorating with neutral might be helpful...

https://blog.annieselke.com/interiors-101-decorating-with-neutrals/

It’s a little too modern for me - looking for something a little more traditional. (Also I can’t buy a 2nd one as they stopped making that dark charcoal color)

What about one of these found in the Houzz Shop?

28" Black Lacquered Linen Champagne Color Verona Black Nightstand · More Info

23.5 Inch Nightstand Black Black Contemporary · More Info

Benjara 26" Transitional Wood Nightstand with Scalloped Drawer Fronts in Black · More Info

Taylor Nightstand · More Info

Moda Nightstand Faux Shagreen, Set of 2 · More Info

Heres a few more.... wondering if they could be a bit wider for that wall. Also thinking a gold frame open shelving option could work too since the other pieces are all closed, open would make it a bit more light and airy feeling. Will need to check height and width to make sure can work. Thoughts?

Are you by chance into acrylic?

I went looking for a shape differentiation so it is more obvious that you chose not to matchy match and came across this instead