I am trying to decide whether I want two toned cabinets in kitchen + built in bar right next to kitchen in living room. Im afraid to have the look appear dated in a few years. Further I want to be sure that for this space (with tons of light) that the rooms will look disjointed and smaller if two tones are used. Here are pics of my samples. Im thinking the darker for island + built in bar, white uppers (they are a soft white, not hospital) and they grey is a cross between grey and taupe. The niche (on the far left in kitchen photo) is where the built in bar will be, right next to the fireplace that will have white/grey quartz. Floors are a beachy wood vinyl. Thx in advance for your help/ advise!