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Kitten update - one year later

3 years ago
last modified: 3 years ago

Well, she's still here and resident cat still doesn't like her but the dustups are less frequent and mostly not as serious. Resident cat seems to enjoy most of the things she did before the kitten arrived. On the friendly side the kitten will walk up to Maggie and Maggie will rub her head against Yoko and Yoko will lick her head - no hissing. But the next encounter might be Yoko walking by Maggie and Maggie growling, hissing and swatting at her - entirely unprovoked other than by her presence. Probably a few times a week Yoko will really try to play with her - chasing her, jumping at her, etc. - and then there will be serious dustup that I break up if I'm around.

Worst thing that's happened, not too long ago, was someone peeing outside the litterbox. The only cat that's ever done that is Maggie who has a history of feline uro syndrome. I immediately thought the stress of the kitten had gotten to her and caused a flare up after years of being fine. So I took her to the vet to get that checked out and she was fine. Vet suggested it may be a behavioral issue if the kitten is coming between her and the litter box. So I added a litter box more out in the open and not back in the dead-end part of the basement where she might feel more trapped. We are now spending a lot of time at our lake place which has broken up whatever pattern of litterbox behavior was going on. When one of us goes back to the city we take Yoko with (she is a perfect car rider in her carrier) which gives Maggie a break. For now the litter box problem seems to be resolved.

I thought after a year we'd have peaceful coexistence but that's not the case though things are much better than they were. On the plus side I think my big ol' siamese cat is losing weight because he's getting so much exercise playing with the kitten. Fortunately he's a good sport about it so she has a playmate.

Hiding out waiting to pounce


A moment of quasi-peaceful coexistence


Good thing we don’t use our dining room table for the intended purpose


Comments (18)

  • 3 years ago

    My experience with cats has been that it seems to take a full year and change of seasons to fully settle into anything new. Sounds like you should be reaching that point, but maybe things will still resolve as kittenhood fades? Kind of sounds like Maggie is still wanting to keep Yoko in her place -- and it's possible she will always feel the need to remind Yoko who is queen bee or at least who came first.

  • 3 years ago

    Has it been a year already? At least they look like they can occupy the same piece of furniture. And so gorgeous!

  • 3 years ago

    Ditto, bpath … how has it been a year?!

    Adorable pictures, I want to snuggle with them all. ❤️

    The pounce picture! 😂

  • 3 years ago

    The photos weren't there when I saw the post. They look like they get along pretty well.


    Your siamese reminds me of a cat I fostered for a while. He had the unfortunate name Squeakers. I would have kept him but my border collie mix wouldn't allow him any peace in the housemadn it wouldn't have been fair to him. I sent an email to follow up and ask how he was doing after a few days. The lady who adopted him told me they loved him. She had come home at lunch to check on him and he'd taken all the ornaments of the Christmas tree and she thought it was great fun since they were not breakable ones. Would have been disaster if we'd had out tree up when he was with us. I was glad he found his home. LOL

  • 3 years ago

    Cute pictures! They look quite peaceful in the photos so maybe they really are beginning to get along. I too can’t believe it’s been a year!

  • 3 years ago

    My girls grew up together from kittens...we got them 9 yrs ago. And they still have their dust-ups. Jealousy especially on Mila's part is a factor even though I'm so careful to give them equal time. I think it's cats just being cats.

  • 3 years ago

    They look well-cared for 3katz and content. I know nothing about cats but they seem to figure me out quickly and love to visit me when I'm at my friend's home. One paw at a time they somehow land in my lap!

  • 3 years ago

    Yoko just wants Maggie to be her playmate.


  • 3 years ago

    Awwww, it doesn't seem too, too terrible, and honestly, even cats raised together from the get go can show intolerance and disdain for each other. When our oldest DD and her DH combined households, they had a couple of dogs and 6 or 7 cats (they are both vets). They made sure each cat had its own litter box. It went pretty well for most of the animals, but two cats were still struggling some months later and they put them on Prozac. In their eyes, the idea was to allow the Prozac to permit the cats to peacefully coexist, before the antagonism became really heated. I think they were on it a few months and it definitely resulted in more peaceful coexistence, though not BFF's LOL.


  • 3 years ago

    Cats are volatile. I have 3 and one is the mom (Kiki) and I have her son (Henry) and daughter (Sue). Sue generally is quite shy and I think even scared by the other two. However, there are times when Sue scares her mom Kiki. Then out of nowhere Sue stalks Kiki and I have no idea why.


    Henry is the top dog (cat I should say). No one scares him at all. However, roles have changed over the years ( i have had all 3 for 10 or more years now). However, Henry is still the the top of the three in terms of who rules who.


    There is a scuttle at least every few days. I see fur flying in the air and some serious sounds that give me the goosebumps! I just chalk it up to --cats are that way. They are all very happy and I just think it is the way of life when it comes to cats.


    Sound like normal life at your house. I love the photos! I am glad you still have her! She sounds like the sweetest little thing. I bet no matter what she is one happy kitty!!


    Amy

  • 3 years ago

    I agree, Amy. My two were adopted when they were sharing a cage in the shelter almost 14 years ago. They are not biological siblings but are quite bonded, but several times a week out of nowhere they will start fighting. The fights don't last long, but there is much growling, hissing, chasing and sometimes flying fur. Then 10 minutes later everything's fine again.

  • 3 years ago

    Well that is encouraging to know so many other cats have these spats. We have no fur flying so I guess that’s a good sign.

  • 3 years ago

    sas95- You hit the nail on the head. I think it is just cat's behavior. It does not matter when in their life you introduce them to another cat ... it is just the way cats are.

  • 3 years ago
    last modified: 3 years ago

    Oh that one of her belly up on the bed is so adorable! 😻 Panda and Blue get along pretty well overall. Panda came from a home with multiple cats and dogs before we got her and then Blue was in a foster with other cats. It took her awhile to warm up to him. She gave many looks of ”what is HE doing here?” but they sleep together and groom each other although she occasionally still gets annoyed with him. She is 14 this month and he is 4.



    Waiting for DH to come home from work and feed them.


  • 3 years ago

    @gsciencechick - so good to see Blue and Panda again. I'm always struck by how much your Panda looks like my Maggie. Hopefully my two will someday sleep together. I've thought that might happen when the old guy passes - assuming he is the first to go. They both snuggle up with him and would only have each other when he's gone. He's 15 and doing well so I think he may be around for another five years.

  • 3 years ago

    @maddielee - yes that was me and I saw that on the news. My realtor went over to the place in question to check it out. The tennis courts were closer than the pickleball courts and there was a lot of activity and noise. He sent me some pictures and there was absolutely no vegetation or other screening so also kind of an eyesore across the street in addition to the noise. So lovely as the house was it’s a no-go so still looking.

  • 3 years ago

    Yes, they could be twins! Panda is super tiny, though. She is back to 7.2 lbs. at her last vet visit. She had lost weight before we got her on the hyperthyroid medication, which is going well. She finds the liquid acceptable and her levels are good.

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