Please tell us where you're located (nearest big city & state). Taking a photo from across the street that will show the entire front of your property would help also.

How do you use this space? Do you need space for kids/grandkids and a dog to play? Would you use a fire pit & benches to hang out and visit with the neighbors? Are you focused on hiding the pole and making a pretty space with no defined function?

Does the electric company have an easement? I cannot believe they would not move the pole!

Plant a tree. Over time, it will hide the pole. The othe option is a tall vine, like wisteria.

Central texas. Im more focused on makeing it look pretty. Hiding the pole would be nice but i mean, how much can you hide a big pole 😅

I know it needs something (alot) but I dont know what or where to even start. It gets full sun and the deer keep eating what i have planted😥

Not a tree and most certainly not wisteria! Plant several shrubs, deer resistant and large at maturity. Protect them from the deer with both spray and barriers (even if they're highly deer resistant) until they're big enough not to need it. Without knowing where you are, no specific suggestions are possible.

Here are a few suggestions:

I don't think you're allowed to plant anything around a power pole that would obstruct access by the electric company, etc. I know for sure you can't plant a vine that will grow up the pole. I would landscape everywhere else like in Dig Doug's suggestion, but not around the pole.