Wondering what to do now and how to remodel?

We will be remodeling in probably 2 years, so in the meantime, we were planning to remove the dated lights, and replace them, but with what? Also considering adding some under cabinet lights for temporary solution, but wouldn't they look odd exposed to the open? I also absolutely hate the color of the countertops (country blue) but I'm not sure there's a cheap fix right now.

For a remodel, we plan to lift the surrounding low ceiling, but it still does not go higher than 8 feet I think. We live in the country, so i like the warmer rustic/farmhouse look, and wanted dark cabinets but I dont think they'll work? For example, I LOVE this look: but our ceilings are too low and I just don't think it would work, unless you see something I don't? My second choice was white cabinets (hubby really wants darker)... and this was about the only look I liked:

Also, I really need more countertop space because everything is chopped up, but am stuck on how to go about adding an island or bar area? I have to be mindful of the sliding glass doors on the left, but what about a short L shaped countertop? Would that restrict the flow too much? Or extending the kitchen out with an island? Any designers have a suggestion??

I love our house but have been staring at our kitchen since we moved in wondering what to do! Thanks for your input!!