I didn't want to take a pic because cabs are
Not done yet. The space
Is very large. I am using white subway tile too any suggestions

Same problem here! I will go with wallpaper as I only have half walls, the lower part is paneling!
Pick a color you like and match your window treatment, chairs, table cloth or decoration and little carpet in front of sink that's what I will do and I'm sure it will look nice!
(Apple green is very nice with a white kitchen)
It's all those little details that will make it look great!
Like Lynette Jennings used to say: DETAILS, DETAILS, PAY ATTENTION TO DETAILS!

Go to Pantone 2014 colour family for the most up to date colours. Any of them would look good in paint with your white cupboards

I want to stay neutral . Does anyone have a color they have painted on their kitchen with white cabinets and cararra marble

If you want to stay neutral, why don't you go with a nice soft beige (linen) I love the white and beige together it's a rich look, my opinion!

Even with the carrera
Marble which has
No grey in it

Check all the kitchens on houzz you will see! But I still think that "linen" would look good with carrera marble because it's neutral!