Pine is tricky to stain because of the density of the wood. It tends to come out red or too yellow. Because your bed seems to have 2 tones in it I would try the Ebony stain. You may have to mix it with the Java to get the color closer to the bed. Test and inconspicuous corner that you can re-sand to see what "blend" works. The image below is Ebony on pine. The second is Java (woodcraft). Staining is tricky and sometimes you need several coats to get the color and depth you want.

That being said there is always the option to paint the dresser in a color to accent the room.

thank you.... do you think white stain will look off?

Depends on how white you make it. If you go that route do a 2 step distressed where first you raise the grain a bit then do the stain on top sweeping against the grain. It will add more depth to the pine.