I would probably paint the cabinets white get a bk countertop paint the walls a mushroom like brown. Your dishwasher and your refrigerator won't stick out as much with the white cabinets. Declutter and bring sliver hardware and you can use red accents.maybe do a roll wooden shade on window and valance in your red

Also I would change the tile to either atile that simple but would look rich or put wood floor down. By painting cabinets white u could go dark or like for wood color on floor.