You have a lot of black and white, so any bright color would work. Try red or coral.

First, you need to center your table. everything is very dark color, go for red or coral or even lighter beige rug.
Make sure the candles as are also a different color or you could use some fresh flowers
The curtains seem a bit short, make sure you open up and possibly add some drapes with some design.
You could also add a mirror or a big art work on the wall where is table is placed.

the curtains are short ugh , i seem to have this phobia against long curtains lol....thanks for the advice!!

Find some art that you like for the right wall, and then bounce off of it for accents, such as a runner...