I would work on centering that light over the table. Perhaps a smaller bistro table?

2 pendents over island.

Perhaps remove the panel in some of the upper cabinets and replace with glass. A carpenter can router out the panel and a glass store can instal the panel. Check Houzz photos for different glass ideas - plain, leaded, frosted.

Also, if you like the look, beams on the ceiling. Will help warm it up with the white cabinets.

Change out the window coverings to something other than white.

Not every's style but I love these window treatments:

They are all good suggestions. You need color. I'm sorry I went with SS. Hardware is a must. Try a bright color or stripe Roman shades. Place a couple of same colored ceramic pots on the counters. Center table below light. Buy 2 colored pendants for island. So many things you can do to bring a new look to your kitchen w/o replacing cabinets.

Definitely try painting or restaining the cabinets before just replacing them.

Depending on your budget, see about refacing your cabinets if you can afford it. The light in your kitchen will dictate how light or dark you want the cabinets.

The white shades would look nice if you are going to paint the walls a color other than white.

Since your cabinets are similar to these, I love a dark espresso with white countertop! It would make it more modern looking without having to change the countertops. You can buy sleek new hardware on Amazon usually cheaper than lowes or Home Depot too! That round table looks too big for the space as well. Chose a backsplash similar to this as well and maybe add a pop of color with a new window treatment?