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THANKS! from Al (tapla)

Hi, Guys! I think they heard you! ;o) You guys DO know you really warmed my heart - don't you? I don't really know how to say this without it seeming like I'm taking something for granted that might not be there, but just in case I saw some friendly affection mixed into your responses to JaG's thread (a special thanks to you, JaG!) that explained where I disappeared to, I wanted you to know that I include many of you among my friends (prolly even more, now!) and I feel the same way. I really enjoy being here with all of you, & feeling like I might have helped some of you squeeze a little extra enjoyment out of your growing experience.

Here's the deal: I'm not sure what I got booted for yet. I hope Tamara will write me and let me know. I'm assuming that it was because I sent JaG a link to a thread I knew he'd enjoy at a competitor's forum site, but he was already a member of that forum site, so I thought nothing of it. It was prolly my fault, but it wasn't like I was soliciting GW members to join another group.

Here .... read my message to Tamera & I think you'll see what happened:

"Hello, Tamara -

Please don't read any irritation into my message - there is none.

2-3 weeks ago (not sure how long exactly) I discovered I was unable to post to the forums. I hadn't had any problems with other posters, so assumed it was either because I posted a link to a picture (picture only, I was sure there was no way to get to a website from the link before posting) of a specific brand of neem oil that has properties superior to most other products; or because I sent a link to a thread at (another forum site) through GW mail. I didn't think the picture was any violation of policy, and I didn't think twice about the link to (the other forum site) because it wasn't posted on the forums, only mailed, and the member I sent it to had already long been a member of (the other site), as have I. In my travels though, I still refer the members of garden-related clubs I speak to, to GW, rather than any other forum site. I really do think it's the best I've found.

I don't doubt that you didn't get a message from me, but I sent roughly the same explanation I just offered you above, three separate times over the 2-3 weeks. One to the Technical Problems address in the drop-down menu, one to the Suggestions/Comments address, and one to the Forum Abuse address. I also asked that someone please explain what I did wrong, so I could avoid doing it again, but I didn't hear anything. I was assuming that the ban might last a month or be permanent.

I'm glad that a few pals banded together (no prodding from me, at all) to call the situation to your attention. Thank you for straightening things out. I hope you can see from this thread

http://forums2.gardenweb.com/forums/load/contain/msg0519154917981.html?31

that there really is a fairly friendly bond between me and many of the people at GW I do my best to help. No matter what I did that got my privileges revoked, I want you to know my heart is always in the right place.

Thanks again. Take care."

Al (tapla)

To be fair, Tamara has worked with me in the past & let me off with a lecture when I got into extended disagreements with people for continually posting harmful or unsupportable advice on other GW forums. It seems like when she got your messages, she acted quickly & restored my ability to post, and I let her know I appreciate that.

I think that for me, any issue lies in the fact that I sent 3 messages (I had to borrow my brother's ID to send them because I was booted) and no one responded to any of them. I'd pretty much given up even checking here at GW to see if I'd been allowed to post again. Someone got those messages & just ignored them - or didn't forward them.

If I look at the other side of things, I can see that prolly lots of people get booted for infractions both intentional and unintentional and GW people can't babysit all of us. I really do TRY to do the right thing, but stuff happens.

All I know is that I'd prolly have to consider this my 'home' forum .... and it feels pretty darned good to be back. Thanks, guys!. ... and thanks for all the support I got in my email, too! ;o)

Al

Comments (38)

  • 17 years ago
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    Welcome back, Al!

    And thank you, Tamara, for your help. It proves someone does listen when they get the message.

  • 17 years ago
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    Welcome Back! It seems I've broken a few of the same rules you mention. I hope they don't go digging to find where, but I'll be more careful in the future.

  • 17 years ago
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    Hoo-ray, Al! So glad you're back! I probably lurk more than post but you've helped me out several times... and it just wasn't the same in the container without you! ;-D

    Claudia

  • 17 years ago
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    Great to have you back Al!!! And I've sent thanks to Tamara for listening. Now we can back to our gardens!

  • 17 years ago
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    It's good to see you back!
    Kristi

  • 17 years ago
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    I'm glad to see you back too.

  • 17 years ago
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    Its great to see you back Al!
    Kandhi

  • 17 years ago
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    All I know is that I'd prolly have to consider this my 'home' forum .... and it feels pretty darned good to be back. Thanks, guys!. ... and thanks for all the support I got in my email, too! ;o)

    Welcome home Al!

    ...feeling like I might have helped some of you squeeze a little extra enjoyment out of your growing experience.

    Boy, is that the understatement of the day....

    Tom

  • 17 years ago
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    It is soooo good to see you back and posting again!! We missed you and your great advise and help. I know I speak for so many here. Welcome back Al!!

  • 17 years ago
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    You guys are soo, soo kind - THE BEST! ;o)

    Al

  • 17 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    welcome back al,
    if you would so kind as to answer a couple of questions
    for me, will orchid bark work in your 5-1-1 mix ?, also
    what would be the best way to water ?, it should be
    very hard to overwater jn your mix wright ? how and when
    to fertilize and at what p.p.m.?

    thanks al les matzek

  • 17 years ago
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    Les. Find your answer at the link I left below. It's at the end of the thread.

    Al

    Here is a link that might be useful: Container soils

  • 17 years ago
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    ~~ for all you do ~~ please accept my appreciation and thanks ~~ welcome back! ~~ phyl

  • 17 years ago
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    Hi Tapla,
    Are you giving us the well worn uni-typer finger again, or did you build a compressed gas pneumatic keyboard during hiatus?
    Ah, we beggars aren't choosy so just stick around.

  • 17 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    It's great to see you posting again, Al.
    Thankfully the messages worked with GardenWeb!
    You've been missed,

    Josh

  • 17 years ago
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    YAAAYYY!!! So glad to have you back!! :)

  • 17 years ago
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    hi al,
    this is les matzek again, i have found a place to get fir
    bark they have 5 or 6 different sizes the smallest is 3/8"
    or smaller, you can get either fresh or aged. what size of
    cotten rope should i use ?, how much wick should be in the
    container and how much sticking out ?, have you tried the
    felt like containers that are called smart pots (breathable) thanke les matzek

  • 17 years ago
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    Dear AL, Glad to see you back. I truly appreciate your work. You have saved my gardening season this year with all of your knowledge. Whoo Hooo!

    Les Matzek - I have used felt pots with success. The only part of my gardening that was working prior to Al's mix. I am working on a design to make my felt pots self watering. I will post in a couple of weeks if successful.

    I am off to make a PVS trellis for my cukes and beans. WOW a little Al's mix and my plants are charging foward in growth. Laurie

  • 17 years ago
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    Very glad your back Al! I want to also thank justa for letting us know what was going on. filix.

  • 17 years ago
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    YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 17 years ago
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    Ok - I need to say thank you again to the latest posters. You guys are way cool! I'm getting dizzy from trying to catch up on this forum. I did manage a few hours in the gardens today, and I got to watch the Redwings give Chicago a sound spanking, too. ;o) JaG prolly got the weather we're getting tonight, last night, but I had to bring in I don't know HOW MANY flats of plants & soo many bonsai because it's going down to 28* tonight! That stinks! Our last frost date is May 15 - FWIW. Hopefully this is spring's last hurrah before we transition to something closer to summer weather. :o(

    Take care. ;o)

    Al

  • 17 years ago
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    Yeah, the overnight lows have been sucking recently. One night I had to get up at 3am as the thunder woke me up. Lows dropped to danger levels and my flats were outside getting flooded. Darn near everything was flattened, but after I drained the trays and put on the fan and lights indoors they perked back up.

    It was a close call.

    I am keeping my eye on the 10 day forecast which looks good as of Wednesday, but am hesitant to trust it.

    I hope this isn't like last year where summer took forever in coming and the nights stayed cool in our area all season. I want more tomatos to actually ripen this year ;)

  • 17 years ago
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    HORRAAYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Now I can get a good rest tonight, and my plants can breathe a sigh of releif!!
    Welcome home Al!!! And justaguy..:-)!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 17 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    YAYYYY! Welcome back, Al!

  • 17 years ago
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    Welcome back! Been waiting to tell you my tomatoes are doing great in 511! Glad your back, it was a bit quiet.

  • 17 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Al,

    Welcome back. We are all very lucky and thankful.

    I used one of your tips recently. You said you check out the garden supply department, no matter where you are. I was in a big box store to get a piece to fix a toilet, and I checked their garden supply even though I was in a hurry. They had a pallet of pretty good pine bark mulch for cheap and with no extra travel--a good day for me.

    red_chucks

  • 17 years ago
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    Sounds like Mea's story, RC. Good score!

    Thanks, Guys. ;o) It's nice to be back.

    Al

  • 17 years ago
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    Hurray!!!

    And many thanks to JaG for spurring on the GW crowds to action and keeping us all informed :)

  • 17 years ago
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    Huzzah! Glad you're back.

  • 17 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Welcome Back! From an admiring fan who has quietly benefited from your generosity of spirit, not only in gardening, but more importantly as a living example of extending oneself to celebrate the joy of others.

    And Tammera, thank you! GW is better prepared to face the future with community builders like Al in its support.

  • 17 years ago
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    Welcome back 'Kata'... You are very much appreciated here, just wish there was more we could do.

  • 17 years ago
    last modified: 11 years ago

    Nice to have you back Al! I'm a full-fledged lurker, as evidenced by the turkey grit in my trunk!

  • 17 years ago
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    Welcome back from another lurker. Don't need to post much because I have learned so much from your detailed but easy to follow information.

  • 17 years ago
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    I have to say it is soo cool to be surprised to learn that I might have touched someone I didn't even know about. Thanks for making yourselves known. ;o) This is a really fun forum, so I hope you'll join us & grab a share of the fun. All of you guys are soo nice. Thank you again.

    Al

  • 17 years ago
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    I know I'm late on this but I'd like to also welcome Al back to the group!

    Al, your vast knowledge and willingness to share that knowledge with the rest of the GW community is very much appreciated. I've learned much from your posts, and generally anything I need to know about soil building, fertilizer, watering schedules, etc. comes from your posts. Before reading the original "Container Soils - Water Movement & Retention" thread I had no idea about the importance or oxygen in the soil, or what Turface was, or why anyone would use pine or fir bark in their soil. Now, thanks to you, I can tell the difference between a good, long-term planting mix and a poorly drained, poorly oxygenated soil mix.

    Until reading your threads on here a couple of years ago I was the guy who would use peat-based MG potting soil and thinking I was using the ultimate soil mix!

    Thanks again Al. Great to have you back on here!

    Regards,

    Dave

  • 17 years ago
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    Thanks, Dave - we DO go back a while, don't we? ;o)

    Al

  • 17 years ago
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    In case no one else mentioned it- we are glad to have you back.
    I hope you got enough rest to jump back into the excessive, redundant questions.
    Our gratitude is matched only by your patience.

    Kyle

  • 17 years ago
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    You're home again, Al. That's good :-).

    Xuan (grandma)