Ebay is a good source of many types of fruit. If not try craigslist, that is also a great source. You should be able to find what you looking for :)

When I bought my 'Anna' hardy kiwi it came with the male vine 'Meader'. There are other males also you just have to make sure the blooms overlap for pollination. You might check out onegreenworld or burnridgenursery online. Those are 2 online stores that come to mind.

I would be very careful getting plants from ebay. Some of the better sellers are reputable, but most don't have a clue what they are selling you. Many online nurseries sell them. In addition to those mentioned above, you can find them at Raintree Nursery and Edible Landscaping. A very good nursery for hardy kiwi is Tripplebrook Farm, which does carry the 'Meader' male.

Here is a link that might be useful: Actinidia at Tripplebrook F arm