Sounds like sour soil, too damp. Re-pot in a 50-50 mix of small redwood nuggets (orchid bark) and potting mix, water well and then only when on the drier side of moist. True, they love outdoors more than in, but they can be brought in for periods. Heck, they can stay inside for long periods as long as you don't keep their feet soggy. Remember that soil doesn't dry out as fast indoors so watch that watering!

If soggy isnt the problem, a thin layer of sand with rid you of the knats we use it in all the food establishments

I left that out

thanks so much ! one more thing....the flowers that have dried up already, is that normal and should I cut them or ?

Most can be cut off. Is the plant pictured on the front page of this forum?

The one I have like that picture is doing good, not dried up....yet ?
I have 3 different kinds, one is the slender red (dont know how to describe) and the other is the kind that has the clear tip come out when it dries out? Im bad at this = )

I cant help on those without pic's