got any pictures of the bugs? some bugs are incredibly helpful to eat the ones that drive us nuts. some bugs can be dealt with (quite effectively, actually) by simply spraying them off the plant with water.

well, the okra has those little pin head sized things and different colors, eggs of something as well. all on the undersides.

the tomatoes have these really soft red colored bugs on them. seems like they are eating the new groth, leaves and stems.

i bought some neem and hope that will take care of it. the water hose didn't work.