I am in the process of remodeling my kitchen and family room. THey are one open space. My cabinets are white with a carrara perimeter counter top and pietra de Cardosa for the island. My family room has a beautiful chocolate brown couch that I want to keep. Since these two rooms flow into each other, I do not know what paint to choose. Every gray I choose is to blue or too dark and the beige's look dreary. HELP!!!