Hi ProudGM,
The base of a fertilized flower will swell a bit and look somewhat like a hershey's kiss. Once dry, ripe seed should be inside.
Remy

hi proudgm
yep remys right no pod their in the dead flower head. i wait till the stems under the head are brown before picking. dont know if you have to just somthing i do.

the seedsite dont have a pic of the head but they do the seeds if you want to know what the seeds look like.:)

Here is a link that might be useful: seedsite