Ok, this is my first year growing tomatoes, and I must say, out here in the NE it has been an awfull year.. However, for future knowlegde, all my tomato plants have developed a gray mold type substance on their leaves.. It starts out as small dots then winds up covering the whole leaf eventually... When the whole leaf is covered the leaf wilts and dries up...

Here are some pictures of various stages..

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