Nonapoo,

Welcome to Gardenweb and to the Tennessee Gardening Forum!

I have a couple of tips that might be of help to you in your search. First, consider coming to one of the plant swaps. The ETPS, for instance, is tomorrow! If you happen to be in the East Tennessee Area and are interested in attending, you can find all the info in the thread that's currently near the top of this forum. If you live in Middle or West Tennessee, check out the corresponding swap for your area. The MTPS has a website with all their info, and the swap for the Memphis area usually posts their info here in this forum.

Next, you might also consider the Seed Exchange Forum. It's a forum here on Gardenweb specifically for people looking for and offering seed swaps. It is often fairly active (although has been a little slower recently).

Lastly, you may want to specify which spider flower you are interested in. There are many many many plants know as spider flowers. I can only imagine how many different cultivars are out there, but even if you just take different species into consideration, here are just a few for example:

Cleome gynandra
Cleome hassleriana
Cleome lutea
Cleome ornithopodioides
Cleome platycarpa
Cleome serrulata
Cleome sparsifolia

Grevillea banksii
Grevillea buxifolia
Grevillea floribunda
Grevillea juncifolia
Grevillea juniperina
Grevillea lanigera
Grevillea linearifolia
Grevillea oleoides
Grevillea pterosperma
Grevillea sericea
Grevillea sphacelata
Grevillea stenobotrya
Grevillea venusta

Hymenocallis latifolia
Hymenocallis (any with a "spider" flower form)

Phacelia congesta