well one thing is I see some plants are drooping down below the soil level of the other pots , I'm sure soil is splashing onto those plants.... not good

Sherry, take a look at my post on this thread, and follow the links:

http://forums.gardenweb.com/forums/load/tomato/msg0309163910974.html?8

The reason I had asked (in that post) about the source of the plants is that Leaf Mold is apparently more often seen in greenhouses, or with seedlings started in greenhouses.

Good luck!

It may be early blight. When you plant tomatoes, remove leaves that are touching the soil.

Here is a link that might be useful: Early blight on tomatoes

Well, first thing I see happening is someone spoiling their cat. Next Couple I can't tell. Last one sure looks like your tomato plant has Early Blight.
Not only reemove all leaves touching the ground. Remove all that are heavily infested with the brown spots. and spray the whole plant with a fungicide. Otherwise your plant will produce only a few tomatyoes before dying.

thank u, I think Ive decided I agree with the Early Blight and also may have a nitrogen issue. I will get right on it, again thanks so much!