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Accessory forum, TOO?

19 years ago

I know this is supposed to be a Holiday forum, but since the stacking plates, AND tablesettings(thanks Judith!!) generated quite a bit of interest, could we also use it as an accessory forum, and how to use them? I can't help but think some great suggestions could be offered, and besides, it's nice to 'bounce' ideas off others and get their opinions.

I used to get on the home decorating forum quite a bit, but there are way too many members, and it's just not as personal as coming here. Half of the time you're ignored, because let's face it, if your question/suggestion isn't always one that's interesting, it just moves on to the next page, which can sometimes be frustrating. I find it also too generic/general as the subject range can be so drastic.

It seems there are a very limited number of women(?)that come here, which makes it a more personal forum, and everyone seems to post on just about every thread. Personally, *I* like that! It shows consideration and interest and doesn't make anyone feel ignored. The smallness of the group can only make it better. If others come join, that's ok~they'll know if the forum interests them or not, and either stay or leave.

The accessories~wall displays, table vignettes, floral arrangements, cabinet/bookshelves/shelving ideas, window treatments, fabrics, lighting and lamps, how to's on displaying collections, and the list goes on. Pictures/ideas can be your own or from a magazine or tv show.

So whatcha think? Should we give it a try? Just thought this was a way to take us through the entire

year, even when there *aren't* any holidays. ;o)

patty_cakes

Comments (30)

  • 19 years ago

    We can if you want. The Crafts and Decorations might include accessories. Not too much going on here so why not??
    I've asked for a gallery here. I use the Crafts and Deco gallery to post my photos. Everyday is a holiday!!!

  • 19 years ago

    Excellent idea Patty. I agree with your thoughts on this being somewhat of a "personal forum" being the same folks posting to other posts. This forum, Garden Junk, Trash to Treasure have all been such "good friends" to me, I just love this and check it two or three times a day. I think these forums are just that anyways, good friends helping others out with a kind word or a suggestion, etc.

    Sal

  • 19 years ago

    Patty_cakes, It sounds fine to me if no one else has any objections. One thing to consider though is that if this forum is used that widely it may become way too busy. Is there someone that runs this forum that needs to be asked about this? Sandi

  • 19 years ago

    Sounds good to me, I tend to think that it is truely a whole seperate/specialized decorating subject in its self. Accessorizing is a challenge to master, I still have my struggles with it so I would like to see more attention to accessorizing. There are a lot of talented people out there that are good at accessorizing, but as Sandi said, it would probably get busy. A while ago, in the home deco area in the "Gallery", I started an Accessories post, but no one has added anything (pics) to it yet, it's just my stuff, I was hoping people would add their ideas to it, so maybe if we have a specific catagory people will participate more?

  • 19 years ago

    Here are a few "accessorizings" that I have done in the past forgive me if some of you have seen these already.

    Closeup

  • 19 years ago

    Minnie, i've gotten on the craft/decorations forum several times, but it seems to be mostly crafting, which I really don't do too much. The closest I get to that might be floral arrangements, but not really a craft, per se, but still something I make/put together. Definitely moves pretty slow, though.

    Sal(craftylady), agreed! I've noticed those particuliar forums are friendly groups, too. Just seems to me when the group is smaller, people are more polite, and think twice before slighting anyone because you've come to think of them as your friends.

    Sandi, we'll just have to wait and see how it goes. More importantly, the subject matter(hopefully!)will stay more 'on track' than home decorating, which like I said, is so general. Keeping it holiday AND accessorizing will generate only those intersted in discussing one or the other. Ot's of course, since we're a small group, and life DOES happen. There is a manager, but adding another subject into the forum is probably something that doesn't involve them. Their 'deal' is keeping out the 'riff-raff' and spam, and you don't even see too much input from them when that happens.

    Hi Judith, good to see you back, AND with pictures! Since there IS no specialized forum for this topic, this could be the best place. Holiday docorating encompasses accessorizing, but it involves bringing in very specific decorations pertaining to the particuliar holiday. It's too bad the accessorizing gallery never took off~it would be a great 'tool' for inspiration. Seems there is more 'paint speak' on the home decorating forum than anything else. I don't own even one paint fandeck. LOL If word gets out that this forum has picked up the topic of accessorizing, and it gets busy, so be it. Like any forum, there are those that come and stay, and those that post once, get what they need, and are never heard from again. There will always be the 'regulars'. Your pictures are gorgeous, and i've NOT seen them before~thanks for being the first to post. I have to get batteries for the digi and start an album on photobucket or someplace. Recommendations???

    Glad you all think this could work~I just like coming 'here', and thought we could use a little bit more variety since there isn't a holiday every month. LOL

    patty_cakes

  • 19 years ago

    judithva - this is the first time I've seen your beautiful displays. What a wonderful way to enjoy your things.

  • 19 years ago

    Judith, You know I've seen your table displays before, but I have to say again that I love them all. The round table I want to use is now against a wall so the display would be seen from the back also. I'm not sure I will like that, but I'm going to fool around with it a little today and tomorrow and yall can let me know what you think. Sandi

  • 19 years ago

    Oops! I should have typed NOT against a wall. And Patty_cakes, I use photobucket and it is really easy. Sandi

  • 19 years ago

    Pattycakes, If you get your camera working and can transfer your pics onto your computer, we can help you get set up on Photbucket so you can post here. If I learned to do it--you know it's not that hard! LOL

    I'm not at all opposed to including accessories on this forum--in fact, it would be quite fun to see someone's "normal" display in their home--then how they change it out for the holidays. Just like most of us are trying to do now for Valentine's Day.

    Gardenweb seems to have been very accomodating about setting up all these forums. If we find we are getting more into accessories than holidays--we could always request that they open a new forum for us under that category.

    With that said--I need to tell you that my "decor" is not very up to date. I'm retired, so am at the stage where I am "making do" with the furniture that I already had. However, I do enjoy buying a new picture, figurine, plates, pillows, etc. to liven things up a bit. That's why dressing up the table or making a nice arrangement on an end table is so appealing to me. It's fun, I can use what I have in new ways, and I can shop for small items that will add just the right touch.

    Guess what I am saying is--don't expect any fancy decor pictures from me, but I will be glad to share what I do as far as tablescapes, flower arrangements, and other decorating items.

    Luvs

  • 19 years ago

    Patty, I think it's a great idea. I found the Home Decorating Forum a bit cold. I posted one question and basically got a re-paint your room answer. I was asking about using my pewter collection (particularly sconces) in rooms that are painted a soft gold. (my l/r, d/r and foyer which have all been painted recently) I just felt that the pewter looked odd against the gold wall???

    Well repainting isn't an option - at my house painting is an occurrence that happens very infrequently. DH had a painting business years ago and you know what they say about the painter's house. I went through at least 7-10 quarts of different colors on the walls before I settled on the soft gold color. So far, I have just been going with it, trying to make it work. DH is definitely not going to re-paint all of those rooms.

    Any event, I just posted a decorating/accessorizing question on the holiday forum about using the pewter and am hoping to get a more practical response:))). I was admiring all the new purchases and figured you gals could perhaps help me out with the dilemma of colors.

    I am relatively new to these forums. I am a bit "craft-challenged" but with a little encouragement and direction, I don't do badly. Judith was kind enough to help me with a cake pedestal centerpiece for my DD sweet 16.

    I'll be checking in here as well as the holiday forum since I am enjoying and learning!

  • 19 years ago

    Luvs, We don't have a lot of money so I always have to compromise on what I buy. If I had my way, I would go to Cracker Barrel right now and buy the cabbage settings. If money was ideas I would have it made. LOL
    I haven't bought any new furniture in YEARS except for junk. My decorating is old and out of style, but I still like it. I can't afford to buy new furniture, but I can have fun decorating for the holidays. No one I know around here is into decorating their homes, much less decorating for the holidays so I really enjoy this forum with yall above all others. Sandi

  • 19 years ago

    Sandi, girl you must be from the South! It made me smile to see "yall" in your post. I am from Florida, can't get much more Southern than that. I retired last year so I am on that famous "fixed income". But I sometimes find really good items at the Thrift Store or yard sales. You can have an really nice setting just by adding color. Find a simple set of white china (or Corelle) and place a pretty cloth napkin on top (I have made my own from material I found at Walmart). Wrap a pretty spring flower around the napkin, simple but pretty. I think cloth napkins can make the most plain setting elegant. And you know what they say about junk being someone else's treasure.

  • 19 years ago

    I think an Accessory forum would be great...:)
    I do love seeing everyones pictures...I believe that even if our homes are decorated differently, on different budgets and for different lifestyles I can learn and get ideas from each person here...:)
    And I think accessorizing can be done on a small budget as well and give a great sense of satisfaction because you created something pretty and change and a little update ones home...:)
    I also like that this area of gardenweb is smaller and friendlier...I had similar experiences as some of you did on the decorating board...I ended up not posting and instead just read because I felt I was not up to par to talk on that board.

  • 19 years ago

    Yes, I am GRITS (Girl Raised In The South). Born and raised in MS, but now living in NC, at least for a few more years.

    I have a set of plain white dishes and a matching set of plain black. I love the black and white mixed together and I also want to buy others to mix with both of them separately.

    I tried to make some cloth napkins one time and was not at all pleased with the hems. I might have to try again if I find the right material. Sandi

  • 19 years ago

    NOT SO EASY! I mentioned in another post today that I have a very old, ruined, lace tablecloth that belonged to my grandmother. I said it was white, but it's ecru. It's a pretty big rectangle shape and for the life of me, I can't get it bunched right on my little round table. Any ideas on how I should lay it out? It has to be bunched up to hide all of the stains and tears. It makes me so sad to see how abused it was. Sandi

  • 19 years ago

    Sandy, two suggestions on your grandmother's lace tablecloth - either dye it a darker creamer-off white color or lay a colorful tablecloth underneath it to mask the areas you don't want seen, such as a floral cloth underneath and bunch it up altogether. Check Joann's for the big sales on fabric. I get some very nice fabric there on sale. And believe it or not, Walmart has some great fabrics too. I recently bought $10 a yard fabric on sale at Walmart for $2.00 a yard. Keep looking around, you'll find something you like.

    Sal

  • 19 years ago

    Wow, it's great to see so many of you excited about an Accessory forum, it is my favorite thing in decorating. I think because for so many years I had very, very little money,(actually I still don't have much being single LOL) so all I could afford to do was buy a plate here a glass there etc, I did not really have great furniture, but accessorizing helped make it feel "done" and "personal", and it enables me to be creative on a budget because everything can be moved around to different rooms for the most part when I am tired of a "look".

    I do post sometimes on the main deco board mostly photos (not so much advise), but not as much as others, because I don't feel as confidant about my decorating expertise as other people do. I am a very visual and touchy feely kind of person, I HAVE to see what is available and be able to "move things around" for myself, and that makes it very hard for me to communitcate well to someone who may be asking a decor question, plus, well, I am an amateur at this, I know what I like, but it still may not be correct..I am also in fear that if I go on with my opinion, I will hurt someones feelings, decorating is so subjective to each individual person..... Anyway, I guess what I am trying to say is I love to help people, but at the same time I am nervous about it since there is a "long distance" type of communication going on.
    With that said, I am looking forward to everyones ideas and me throwing in a few myself. (sorry this is way so long- winded)
    PS. I finally got my home lap-top and internet set up last night, wireless set up was a nightmare, I could go on and on about this but I think this is not the place LOL, I will make a trip over to the Computer forums to ask some questions on what the "provider" last night could not answer.

  • 19 years ago

    Sal, My tablecloth is so full of too dark stains and tears that dying it will not help. I wanted to use it kind of like a shawl, but I just can't get the layout right. I'll keep playing with it.
    I do need to check fabrics at Walmart & Joann's this week. That's a good idea as I haven't sewn anything for quite awhile and it's long overdue.
    Judith, I know you are really happy to finally have your laptop and internet up and running. It will get easier as you go.

  • 19 years ago

    Yeaaaaaa, i'm so glad you ladies are for this!! If a room 'ain't' accessorized, it just 'ain't' DONE !LOL Kind of like leaving the frosting off the cake.

    I like 'collecting' decorating books also, and subscribe to a couple of magazines, and may even pick up a couple more during some months. If you think you might want a specialized book on accessorizing, Christy Carter's Art of Accessorizing it the BEST. It's loaded with pictures/ideas that, IMO, anyone can actually put to use, not just 'fluff'. She also gives the principles of display, but at the same time tells you there are no hard and fast rules. It's all about what YOU LOVE.

    I buy almost all my books thru Amazon, and most of them are 'used', but they're really new~probably from some large discount bookstore/dealer.

    You don't have to go overboard with books like I have, but it's nice to have one really good book as sort of a reference guide. Just something to think about. I like to take my books and read in bed~sure makes dreaming nice! ;o)

    patty_cakes

  • 19 years ago

    Didn't want to make my other post too long, so decided to make this a separate post re: Sandi's stained tablecloth. There's a spray called Folex that i've used for getting red wine out of off-white carpeting that has set for several months. Years ago one of my DD had a NY eve party, and to make a long story short the wine got spilled on the carpeting. I had the carpet cleaners come, but nothing seemed to work. One day when I was at my local drug store where they rent the cleaning machines, I just thought I would look at their cleaning products. I picked up one called Folex, that claimed to take out red wine~sure I thought, but bought it anyway. Well, guess what? It WORKED, and now i'm never without it!

    I buy old linens~tablecloths, dresser scarfs, aprons~and they alwwys have stains on them. My good 'ol Folex has taken care of a lot of stains, but i'll be honest and say it's not a 100% 'cure-all' for all stains, and I know some of them have been there for years.

    So Sandi, what do you have to loose? I don't think it's as harsh a treatment as bleach would be and would weaken the fabric even more.

    I've purchased mine from the drug store cause it's close, but bought a gallon of the stuff at Lowe's not too long ago(they have the spray bottle too, as does HD). The small spray bottle is all you'll need~it's 32 oz for about $6, and you don't dilute it.

    If it's lace, why can't you sew the tears~they probably wouldn't even be noiced. I have a huge gold color crochet tablecloth(?)that I use as a canopy for my four poster bed~it was my great-aunts. I would be sick if I had to get rid of it. It had one hole in it when I got it, and I just sewed it up, and you can't even see it.
    Try the Folex! ;o)

    patty_cakes

  • 19 years ago

    Hi Pattycakes, Thanks for the book reccomendation, I'll take a look at that one. I liked it when you said "anyone can actually put to use"--so many times they show things that are "one of a kind" or so expensive.

    I sure have been looking at all my items in a new way since I've been on this forum. And guess what? I found a way to make some more space in my storage area, so if I move some seldom used things out there, I will have more inside storage available. Yeah!

    I love magazines too. Had to curb my desires a bit, but still pick one up now and again. I am not too crazy about the newer big fat ones that are mostly advertizing. Love the ones with lots and lots of pictures.

    Well, I better quit rambling on here. I'll check back in later today.

    Luvs

  • 19 years ago

    Patty_cakes, If the tablecloth hadn't belonged to my grandmother is would qualify as trash. It has major huge stains, cigarette burns and some places are actually shredded. I will try the Folex and will sit down and do a little hand sewing repair just to keep it in one piece, but it can never be laid out flat again. Thanks for the tip on the Folex.
    I love decorating magazines also, but agree with Luvs that most of them have way too much advertising and show such expensive stuff, and usually way too formal, not to mention the cost of magazines to begin with, that I buy very few of them anymore. I'm always trying to find new decorating sites online to satisfy my cravings. Sandi

  • 19 years ago

    Oh, Pattycakes, you are so right about Folex. It has been one of my cleaning staples for years and years. In fact, I just went to get another gallon today. Little GD had spilled milk on my livingroom couch and I just found the stain so had used all I had left on that cushion. Yes, it took it out--and made the cushion look so much cleaner that I realized I needed to clean the other cushions too! LOL

    Sandi, I love it that you are sentimental about your Grandmother's tablecloth. Do try the Folex--it won't hurt it. Spray it on, roll it up and let it set several hours or overnight. Then wash it in warm soapy water and see how it does. If it helps some--do the same thing again. I've had items that were badly stained and I've repeated doing this three times to get the stains all out. And do stitch it up the best you can--that will actually make it easier to fold and bunch it up around an object on your table. Won't you be proud if you find a way you can actually use it and enjoy it? Luvs

  • 19 years ago

    Here's the website for Christy Carter's book:
    http://www.amazon.com/o/ASIN/0696222159/ref=s9_asin_image_1/103-6802004-2903052

    Make sure you click on the pictures from the book in the lower left hand corner.

    There are 6 new($17.95 and up) and 6 used at $15.75. Regularily it's $24.95. there ae 189 pages and EVERY page has a beautiful pictures. Here are the different chapters.

    Chapter 1/wall decor
    Building a symmetrical wall arrangement
    Asymmetrical balance

    Chapter 2/signature accessories
    Building a tabletop display
    Beautiful bookcases
    One coffee table four ways
    Accessorizing a kitchen hutch
    Before and after cabinet display
    Step-by-step shelf arranging

    Chapter 3/flowers and foilage:
    Quick seasonal changes
    Dressing the dining table
    Before and after plantscaping

    Chapter 4/ambience
    Decorating with lamplight
    The power of fragrance

    I've gotten more inspriration out of this one book then I have out of ten others.

    Ms. Carter's mission statement is 'giving back'. At the end of the book is an article of how she worked with a group of wowen to help build a home thru Habitat for Humanity.

    I'm always impressed with anyone who gives back when they've been blessed with so much. ;o)

    patty_cakes

  • 19 years ago

    I totally agree with patty_cakes, I have that book too, it is down to earth and easy to understand. I also like the Nell Hill books by Mary Carol Garrity.

  • 19 years ago

    Judith, Nell Hill's books keep me up at night!! I just can't STOP thinking!!LOL I too am a very visual person and can 'decorate' until the wee hours of he morning. LOL Same with clothing. I have her first two books, but not the Christmas book. I think there may be a third coming out~I thought I read that someplace~sure hoping so!!

    CC's book is excellent for both inspiration/motivation and if you're just getting started in accessorizing. Like I said, her style is for the every-day home~you don't have to live in a mansion to appreciate it, or put it in YOUR real life environment. ;o)

    patty_cakes

  • 19 years ago

    patty cakes,
    She has 3 books out:
    Nell Hills Decorating Secrets
    Nell Hills Christmas at Home
    and her newest: Nell Hills Entertaining in Style, I have them all and I get something interesting from all of them, they were worth it to me, I do love her style. I think you would like the new one too.

  • 19 years ago

    Judith, will have to go look to see what I have~thought I had two, but know it's not the Christmas one. I would love to visit her shop AND her home! And to think it all started with her Grandmother.

    I've always been interested in decorating too. One of my project in Home EC(are you old enough to remember THAT?LOL)was to redo a room, either in 'real life' or just pictures glued on paper. I chose to re-do my bedroom, paint and all. I remember choosing a brown/white print bedspread and drapes, sheers underneath, and new lamps, and remember having my Mom buy some pictures for the wall, but can't remember what they were. She had given me the Mahagony furniture her Mother gave her when she and Dad married because she had gotten the 'new' blonde furniture for their bedroom. I never thought too much about it, just thought it was 'old'. Sure wish I had it now~i've learned the art of appreciation. ;o)

    patty_cakes

  • 19 years ago

    I took a look at those books on Amazon. Now I know what to ask for as gifts for my birhday--they all look so great. Somehow the entertaining one is very appealing right now--maybe because we have all been discussing dishes so much lately. ;o) Thanks for the suggestions.

    Pattycakes, what a great project for a teenager. Bet you really enjoyed that bedroom because you did it too. Yeah, there are lots of things that I wish I had hung on to--why do we only appreciate it when it's gone? Ha ha

    Luvs

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