Here are some good Benjamin Moore greys: and

I used this grey in my dining room and love it:

And the all time number one recommended grey: I used this grey, too. In my hallway and trim for two bedrooms.

Yes, Revere Pewter, very adaptable color to grays and beiges. We're painting our living room with it this weekend, and probably for the next 3 weekends as I am not a speed painter.

My floors are oakwood throughout the house and ivory trim on molding

Dytecture! What color is that on the walls? I think that is the color I currently have but can't find where I wrote it down....but I do love that Rever Pewter color - have to google images with that color. THANKS EVERYONE for your help!!!!!

I like Universal Khaki from Sherwin Williams. I've got it in two bedrooms and two bathrooms. It leans toward a brown/green which may not be the pure grey you're looking for exactly but it such an interesting color and looks different in every room
http://www.sherwin-williams.com/homeowners/color/find-and-explore-colors/paint-colors-by-family/SW6150/

THANK YOU AGAIN everyone for your help! I went for the revere pewter and my hubby loves it too!!