Do any of you use a cross stitch stand when you stitch? Something to hold the hoop or the material taut while you stitch. My hand gets tired of holding the material and I am looking for a frame that I could use that would hold the material for me. I had a friend who had a cross stitch shop years ago and she had one, but of course can't remember who made it. I would like recommendations and maybe somewhere online to buy one. Thanks