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Any astrology gurus here?

16 years ago

I think I need an explanation for why there is soooo much negativity going on in my life right now!

The other day with the coworker, then today I was given the 3rd degree by a woman (member of the public) while we were at a meeting (she did later apologize). DH had drama with two friends...both in crabby moods. And his mom was short with him today on the phone.

I had rude people honk and be snide in the parking garage. Then it took more than twice as long as usual to drive home, thanks to traffic.

Then there is another guy who is just being a jerk...I won't go into all the details, just that he's got a big case of sour grapes and won't let it go. He and I got into a heated email exchange, and while I got the last word, I feel slimey due to it. And then my Mom had forwarded a depressing email from my sister.

DH is having similar garbage...so the only thing we can think is that it's got to be something with the planetary alignments!

Comments (23)

  • 16 years ago

    Could be a full moon? Wow, that is a lot of negative. I guess better to get it all done at once but that is a lot. Wish I could help.

  • 16 years ago

    Not a full moon, but mercury is in retrograde. Will be in shadow days until I think the 28th, but we are still in "red days". You can Google Mercury in Retrograde and Year 2010 Calendar to read about it. I never paid much attention, until a few years ago and I always can tell when it occurs.

    That's my story and I'm stickin to it.

  • 16 years ago

    work in progress, you're the one who got me started on the mercury in retrograde stuff, I think.

    It stopped being in retrograde on the 11th, I did not know about the shadow days till the 28th, makes sene though and could have lingering effects.

    check out the link below, funny.

    pesky, I sympathize with you; there are periods where no file gets closed,
    no resolution gets finalized, stuff just keeps piling up. Then things pick up and the wind gets in your sails.

    Here is a link that might be useful: Is mercury in retrograde ?

  • 16 years ago

    Nope, mitch, we're still in red retrograde days until the 23rd and shadow to I think the 28th of May.

    Take heed.

  • 16 years ago

    You know what they say, when it rains it poors, isn't that how it always is? And I hate when those times arrive too. Of course I only know what I see here in the forum, but the impression you always reflect to me is that you're a very kind, fun loving person who is soooo likeable Pesky, don't let them rain on your parade. The anger will just attract more negativity. Take a deep breath, think about all that is wonderful in your life and separate yourself from it. It's THEIR problem not yours.

    ps I know it's easier said than done, but it really does work.

  • 16 years ago

    Thank you sooo much for the info about Mercury in retrograde. There are times when the drama just PILES UP in our life and for some reason it just really got to me and DH last night.

    When I went to bed I said some grateful prayers for the good things in our lives. I have to acknowlege those or I'll end up sour & mean!

    Irish..thank you for such a nice compliment!

    Now, armed with this info about Mercy, I'll be sure to steel myself until the end of the month.

  • 16 years ago

    The site is use is AstroProfile.com. Sorry I don't know how to use the linky thing. The site gives you the calendar for the year. I think if you read a little about it, you will see some things in your own life may have gone haywire during retrograde, particularly on the red/red yellow highlighted days.

    Not for everyone. I was a skeptic until only a few years ago. I can tell when it is retrograde without even looking at the calendar because alot of things happen to get screwed up during this time, in particular -communication.

    Can someone how to post a direct link to the computer challenged gal trying to make progress, but not having any luck?

  • 16 years ago

    Can someone how to post a direct link to the computer challenged gal trying to make progress, but not having any luck?

    Typing:

    Skeptics Dictionary on Astrology

    Will give the clickable link:

    Skeptics Dictionary on Astrology

    -Lena

    Here is a link that might be useful: More info on HTML codes here

  • 16 years ago

    I am a Pisces, and I do believe there are certain characteristics in all twelve signs. But to live your life by the stars, nah!

    Of course I love Scopio's and Cancers and Capicorns. (lol)

  • 16 years ago

    Oh my...

    Do you guys REALLY believe planetary orbits have ANYthing to do with life/events on earth?!?!?

    Sorry-I'm NOT tryin' to be harsh...honest! It just seems a little corny to think that a celestial body spinning millions of miles away has one iota to do with anyone's life...

    Honest. I'm NOT trying to offend anyone here!

    All right...I'd better get my suit-of-armor on now?
    ;-)

    Faron

  • 16 years ago

    We wouldn't be discussing it if we didn't believe it just a little bit, don't you think ?

    This is like stating that it's too trivial to discuss paint color when there's a war going on. You're entitled to your opinion although it's more of a judgement, imho....

  • 16 years ago

    Yes, I do believe it has some effect. The tidal pull of gravity definitely has an effect; it's pretty common thinking that lunar activity (ie full moon) has effects on people. We're made up of minerals in our bodies, so I think that the ebb and flow of gravity is a factor. That's my scientific theory anyway!

  • 16 years ago

    Do you guys REALLY believe planetary orbits have ANYthing to do with life/events on earth?!?!?

    In that the ocean tides are caused by the gravitational interaction between the earth and the moon, I have to say yes.

    And though just anecdotal, from having worked at a walk-in citizen's complaint center many years ago, I tend to believe there is a relation between the full moon and people's actions.

  • PRO
    16 years ago

    I wouldn't use astrology to help make any major life decisions. I do like to think we still have a connection to the basic elements of the Earth, moon, sun and planets. I amuse myself reading the horoscopes and on occasion like to read dh's to him.
    In today's paper for him: Let your partner choose the direction today. Ha!
    I worked with the public for decades. Full moons seemed to bring out craziest of the crazy.
    I will admit this too...I have a deck of tarot cards and I thinks it's interesting what comes up. I get them out as a parlor type of game when family comes over (they ASK me to read their cards!) and the oddest coincidences come up in the cards.

  • 16 years ago

    deedee, I have seven sets of Tarot cards. *cheesy grin* I have most of them because I loved the artwork on them; for many years I only had one set (which had actually been a gift from someone else) but in recent years there has been an explosion in beautifully-done Tarot cards as well as this broader range of cards being more readily available. Anyway, I like to use Tarot readings to stir up things in my subconscious mind, provoke ideas that I hadn't necessarily thought of already, and come up with different ways of looking at things going on in my life and the potential ramifications if I do this or this or this. And yes, sometimes the weirdest coincidences do pop up, but do I think they are accurate predictors of future events? Nah. Ditto for astrology, numerology, crystal reading (although I do have a pint-size basket of crystals and stones of various types, they're pretty and fun to play with, and some of my friends are either rockhounds or crystal folks), I Ching, examining animal guts, and other types of divination. I think they can all have their uses, but I don't think relying entirely on any of these things is a good way to direct your life.

    Do you guys REALLY believe planetary orbits have ANYthing to do with life/events on earth?!?!?

    What one believes in - and I mean really believes, on the gut level - can have a very significant effect on their emotions, behavior regarding self and others, and worldview in general. I mean, at risk (ha! near-guarantee) of offending some other posters, when you really get down to it it's just as reasonable as basing all of one's life choices on the belief that there's a noncorporeal being who is omniscient, omnipotent, and almost entirely oriented on having direct influence on virtually every tiny detail of existence (including fielding constant requests and demands from millions of people who believe this being is continuously observing them), and may suffer great emotional disturbance over behaviors that may offend said being. And to top it all off, many of these people - often quite viciously - condemn others who don't share their belief in this particular being, or even might address the same being differently than they do, sometimes to the point of murdering other humans. Viewed dispassionately, it makes about as much sense as basing all of one's life decisions, behaviors, and even self-definition on the movements of celestial bodies light-years away, doesn't it?

  • 16 years ago

    I'm just a guy who, 99% of the time...has to have PROOF.

    Yes, I know...tides, etc., are affected by our moons' pull on a fluid.
    But planets/moon-phases affecting thinking, or any other event?
    C'mon now!
    It's funny the relationships the Human mind can conjur up...and actually BELIEVE in!

    Faron

  • 16 years ago

    Well said Mari (and I hope all is well with you! :) )

    I have my mothers well worn tarot cards and crystal ball on my dining room table. I don't think she ever used the crystal ball, but it is very pretty.

  • 16 years ago

    Yes, I know...tides, etc., are affected by our moons' pull on a fluid. But planets/moon-phases affecting thinking, or any other event? C'mon now!

    The human body is over 60 percent water and even higher for the brain (based on a quick internet check) so why wouldn't our bodies be affected by these gravitational pulls? There is so much we don't know about the working of the human body and brain that I wouldn't discount much of anything.

    And I second what johnmari wrote (brilliantly), but now we are creeping into a Hot Topic area.

  • PRO
    16 years ago

    My deck is Golden Tarot by Kat Black and they ares stunning. Collages of artwork from the late middle ages and early Renaissance. I was always fascinated by tarot since I was a little girl. I think it started watching the gypsies in the old werewolf movies on Creature Features. For my 40th bday I received a gc from borders and decided to get a deck. I thought I could walk in and discretely pick a deck out. Instead...they were kept in a locked case and employees shouted to each other across the busy store that a lady needed help at the tarot case. My daughter was mortified and acted like she didn't know me.

    I hadn't got them out in ages and just did a reading. Out of 10 cards 4 were coins and 2 powerful women. Yesterday got notice from my bank that my business loan is up for renewal and I need to submit financial info.
    Powerful women - me! Coins - not a problem!
    Do I take is seriously? Nope. Is it amusing? Yes
    Jonmari, well said.

  • 16 years ago

    I've always been intrigued by Tarot cards. Can you recommend a good way to learn about them?

  • PRO
    16 years ago

    pesky, it did take a while for me to be able to glance at the cards and get a "reading" quickly. There are 78 cards in the deck so quite a bit to remember about what signifies what.
    I have (as silly as it sounds) Tarot Made Easy by Nancy Garen. The Golden Tarot did come with a booklet too.

    And if your wondering,the Death card signifies change and renewel, does not mean imminent death to someone near and dear. Everybody shrinks back in fear from it in the old movies, but it's actually a good card. The Tower is the one that's not fun to see....
    I still snicker at my adult brothers sheepishly lining up last Christmas to get their cards read. It's hard to resist a prediction no matter what you believe in.

    deedee

    Here is a link that might be useful: Tarot Made Easy

  • 16 years ago

    That is the same book I have deedee. I was going to go look on the bookshelves, but I recognize the cover. I have two copies still, the one my mom had and the copy she bought me. I thought it was a good book for learning the basics although I haven't picked up the deck to use it in a long time. One of these days!

  • PRO
    16 years ago

    boopa, that is neat that you have your mom's tarot cards. I think some inanimate objects hold onto memories. That may sound weird. Oh well. I yam what I yam as Popeye would say. johnmari, we can proudly, cheesily grin together! And pesky I hope your days get easier.
    This Virgo is now off to organize something :)