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I've Been Away for A While

Hi All --

I've been gone for quite a while -- almost a year -- and wanted to drop in and say hello. It looks like there are a lot of familiar names still poking around. :)

I disappeared last year because my H and I separated, we lost our house, and well, there wasn't much thinking about decorating going on...

For those who remember, my DS is 2 1/2 now. He is talking up a storm (started talking after my H and I separated) and he is mostly eating, but we still have food/weight/growth issues pop up. DD is starting kindergarten next year, and she also is doing much better these days.

I've been taking furniture restoration and refinishing classes, so I might post some of my projects for y'all to see. The refinishing work is very therapeutic. Plus, it's easier to furnish my new house on no $$ when nothing costs more than $50. :D

Comments (37)

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome back! I'm sorry you had such a tough year. I'm hoping things are getting much better for you now.

    Can't wait to see some of the projects you've been working on. I've thought about tackling some furniture projects too, but have put them off because I don't have a good work area. My garage is so dirty, and my basement is full of hockey equipment!

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome back, we missed you! I'm so sorry to hear about what happened but glad to hear that you are taking classes for something you like to do. I look forward to seeing your projects as well.

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome back! It's so good to see you! Just jump right in and start posting, as though you'd never been away. Can't wait to see pics of your projects!

  • 17 years ago

    People were just asking about you recently. Glad to see you back but sorry so many troubles. Hopefully you're on a better path now.

  • 17 years ago

    That must have been why I felt my ears burning, squirrel! :D

    I'm on my way to a much, much better path. Thanks for asking.

    I recently heard this joke about divorce, which pretty much sums it up: half the money, twice the happiness. :D

  • 17 years ago

    It's good to see you!

    Again, sorry to hear you've had a bad year. Glad DS is doing better. Great news.

  • 17 years ago

    Hi! Guess I'm new here because I don't 'know' you. Nice to meet you! Welcome back. I would love to see your projects too.

    Glad you are getting your life back on track.

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome Home!

  • 17 years ago

    You have been through a lot, glad to see you are on the road to recovery.
    You were even mentioned at one point, can't quite remember when.
    Just jump in, and all the best to you; it's good to hear your son is better.

  • 17 years ago

    Good to see you back. So sorry to hear that you have had a bad year but I bet your future will be much, much better.

  • 17 years ago

    We missed you! I am so sorry this has been a rough year for you.

    Great to hear that your little one is doing better.

  • 17 years ago

    Sarah, great to see you back.. and to hear that you and your children are doing so much better. I am sorry it was a rough year, but you are moving forward and sounding good.

    Would love to see your projects--

  • 17 years ago

    Hey there Sarah !

    I've missed my you, my MCM buddy. I don't post here too frequently, but glad I checked in today.

    Great news about your son, really happy things are looking brighter for all of you.

    Don't forget to visit us over at AM ok? Allison, Roco & I are still there and would love to hear from you :-)

    (Plus you have to try and solve at least one of my quizzes, lol.) Jane T.

  • 17 years ago

    Hi Sarah - it sounds like things are looking up for you. I am happy to hear the kids are doing well. Miss seeing your posts! It is good to hear from you - so don't be a stranger.

    tina

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome back Sarchlos- sorry to hear about your bad year. OTOH glad to hear your kidlets are doing well. Someone here mentioned in a thread you were separated from the H and thats why you hadn't been posting. Glad to see you back, and look forward to your furniture restoration pics.

  • 17 years ago

    Yes, welcome back!
    As I can now testify to (just recently losing my 3-year-old terrier suddenly), these boards are good for whatever ails you. The support is incredible, the laughs plentiful and the decorating advice incomparable (well--as long as we're not talking bathroom decorating; that seems to throw us off the deep end! LOL!).
    Also glad you have turned a corner and seeing the "what can be"!

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome back.

    It's a good sign that you're back in touch with all of your GW buddies. :)

  • 17 years ago

    I, too, have been wondering about you and the kids. I haven't been around much and assumed I had missed some postings, but feared it might be something more serious. I'm sorry to hear of all the hardships, but it's good to know DS is on the mend. Wishing you all the best.

  • 17 years ago

    Another big Welcome Back! Splitting up with an 18 mo. old
    ( and with health issues, too) and a 4 year old...well, that just touched my heart. I am so glad you are all healing!

  • 17 years ago

    Recognized your name right away - so glad to have you back!

  • 17 years ago

    Gosh, trying to think of soemthing to say. I feel a little like Sally Field here.

    It's nice to be back among friends. Very nice, also, to find myself in a place where I feel I have something to contribute.

    And thank you all for your concerns about my kiddos. They're both doing so much better now. Their dad and I live fairly close together, and we're sharing physical custody, which isn't always the easiest thing to do, but I think it gives the kids the best of both worlds.

  • 17 years ago

    Late but I welcome you back too! I remember the feeding questions you had about your DS. Glad to hear you three are on the mend.

  • 17 years ago

    Another welcome back! It sounds as if you have weathered some really horrible moments and have come out better off and much happier. That result hopefully mitigates the pain somewhat. Glad that your kids are doing well, too.

    Don't get here much myself these days, but it is always nice to be here when possible - feels like a home away from home.

  • 17 years ago

    ((((Sarchlos_remodeler)))))

    I understand more than you realize. :(

  • 17 years ago

    Another late but sincere welcome back, sarschlos remodeler! Hope this forum will be a pleasant respite from life's stress...and looking forward to having you back again!

    Ann

  • 17 years ago

    Sarah,
    May I email you?

  • 17 years ago

    Sarah I often wondered how DS was doing (and you as well but you know he has a special place in my heart given he shares some issues with my son). I'm glad to see your name again :)

    I am sorry it's been a bad year...I hope this post is an indication that you're feeling better about your new life...it sounds like that's the case :)

    Welcome, and honestly, I'm so glad to see you :)

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome back!! Adding my best wishes and good thoughts to all of the above for you and your son! You seem to be on a better path to good health and happier home -- well done! :)

    Jan

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome back, (((Sarah))). How wonderful to have the therapy of those classes--nothing like bringing something back to life to bring you back to life...I look forward to seeing what you have learned and done. Hope some of them are nice MCM pieces :) Hang in there.

  • 17 years ago

    Wow - I'm offering a r e a l l y late welcome back! I'm glad to see my MCM compadre and am glad that you're coming through a very eventful year with great optimism. Looking forward to seeing you more around the "neighborhood."

  • 17 years ago

    You probably do not remember me but you've given me great decorating advice in the past. I am so glad you are back, so glad that things are moving in the right direction for you!!!

  • 17 years ago

    Hi!s & Hug!s
    Me too, so happy to see you back here where you belong cause "we like you"! And nice to know you don't have to worry about that fireplace anymore, lol. What fun it must be taking refinishing classes! I just got some furniture from my mother's estate and want to refinish them darker wood tones for my home. I'd be thrilled to see your projects and learn from you! We should all start a refinish thread in the Gallery to help each other! Want to?
    May I wish you courage to be happy "Your Way"! Welcome Home.

  • 17 years ago

    Well, no point in reading about paint & paper, chairs & tables, rugs vs. hardwood, if you aren't working on a house, right? Plus, I think a lot of us have taken a long break at times, even if we didn't refer to it as such on the board, when we've had problems, issues, illnesses, or other bigger things to deal with than choosing a wallpaper pattern.

    Nice to see you name around here again. Glad you feel back in the swing of things and glad to have your input again.

    Red

  • 17 years ago

    KD -- Yes, you can email me.

    Thanks everyone for all the kind words. It's nice to be back among friends.

  • 17 years ago

    I don't usually post here, but I was just wondering about you, did a search, and came up with this thread. I'm so sorry you've had such a bad year. From what little I've read from you, you are a very strong woman and will get through this. Sounds like the kids are doing well, and you too. I'd love to see your projects.

    Welcome back to the forums. Full steam ahead.

  • 17 years ago

    Welcome back! Here's wishing you a brighter new year. Hope to see you around GW more often now.
    Lynn

  • 17 years ago

    sara - I missed seeing you post, and I'm glad you're back also. Sorry to hear about your rough time, but hope better times come on strong for you.

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