Wow, this is a toughie.

"Color Matching" F&B Pointing in BM satin Impervo could be tough. Matching those luxury brands usually doesn't go smoothly.

I never like to tell a painter what products he has to use on stuff like cabinets. He's hand-painting them and he likes satin impervo, he probably has that preference for very good reasons. Like because it's what he gets the best results with. You want his best results and making him use an unfamiliar, not favorite product makes it a slippery slope.

Pointing is gorgeous and it might be worth asking him to branch out of his comfort zone. I think I would first see if your Ben Moore store can get a "match" to Pointing that you are happy with. First, try to make everyone happy -- you get your color and he get's his favorite flavor of paint.

If they can't, then discuss with the painter and pursue F&B paint in Estate Eggshell. Hold your ground if you want your color. If close enough isn't good enough for you, then it's simply not.

Here is a link that might be useful: Estate Eggshell