It's too orange. I would change the stain but not necessarily to a darker color.

A lot of work to re stain. It will lighten over time. I would focus on getting landscape in to soften it. Best wishes1

I hear you say you hate it but my eye is bothered not by the color of the fence but the whiteness of the driveway! I would stain that and then I think the contrast of the fence will work better. And yes, the orange will change over time and not be so bright.

As mentioned above, landscaping is key here. Spend your energy and $ on plantings.

The sun and a few rain storms will give it a more natural hue. Give it a little time while you get some plants and landscaping done. Greenery and flowers will completely change the look.

I'd stain it white. BM semi solid Arborcoat in white will cover it.