OT.......I lost my Pam

10 years ago

I know we don't share "personal" details.....but I've had so many friends here over the years....where's our Conversation page ?

My Soulmate......the "Love of my Life".......died this week after a long battle with ALS.......We were married for 37 Years

http://www.acommunityfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Pamela-Seibert/

I'm Heartbroken

dougandpam

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sultry_jasmine_nights (Florida-9a-ish)

10 years ago

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So sorry to hear about the loss of your soul mate. I will be praying for you and your family. I think it is perfectly OK to share personal stuff on the forum if you wish to. I'm glad you shared with us.

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dott
10 years ago
"....And though the days we shared seem few, forever will I be with you. When your day seems dark as night, remember me to make it bright....."

a pinch from a poem, I hope it may help you in your time of loss and grief. May God's Spirit be close to comfort you.
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Carol love_the_yard (Zone 9A Jacksonville, FL)
10 years ago
Doug,

I am so, so sorry to hear this news. I've been around here 11+ years and I feel like I know you. I know ALS must have been a long, hard battle. One of my very good friends is going through this and it is very tough, every day. Thanks for the link to Pam's obituary. It was nice to read more about who she was - and what a special lady! I know your heart is broken. I wish I was there to give you a big hug.
May God wrap his loving arms around you and give you peace and comfort.

Carol in Jacksonville
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wanna_run_faster
10 years ago
Doug, I'm so very sorry to hear about Pam.

Helen
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Catherine Z8-ish PNW
10 years ago
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So sorry for your loss. Such pain. That damn ALS.
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Glenn Jones(9b)
10 years ago
I'm very sorry for your loss
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writersblock (9b/10a)
10 years ago
I'm so very sorry, Doug.
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oldmangroot
10 years ago
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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whgille
10 years ago
Dear Doug, I am so sorry to hear the sad news but in this time of deep grief for you think that you did the best that you could for her, it was not in your hands to make her better, my prayers are for both of you, she is in a resting place now and no suffering or disease. Now you need to be strong and go on with life...

Think of her and all the good memories that you shared, she was such a pretty Lady! I can see why she was your life companion.

Silvia
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inulover (9A Inverness, Florida)
10 years ago
Like your other Garden Web friends, I am deeply saddened that you two had to go down this path. I think about you two often when I look out back and see the 2 loquats - Doug and Pam - presents from my friends. I will remember her. And please, please, please, stay with us. I know this House thing isn't the old Garden Web, but it works.
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User
10 years ago
Doug, I too am very sad to hear this and will not spout platitudes. I lost my husband 30 years ago, the love of my life, and I have never found another. I'm here if you need to talk. Just message me.
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thonotorose
10 years ago
I cannot imagine your grief. Blessings to you.
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sharon's florida
10 years ago
I can't imagine anything worse than losing the love of your life. Sending prayers your way that you may find comfort. So sorry for your loss.
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cfldoc 9b Lake County
10 years ago
Very sorry to hear this. Prayers sent your way.
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MikeM8560 (10A)
10 years ago
so sorry to of your loss doug
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