Compare to Perilla frutescens.

Thanks all, I'm pretty sure it's bee balm

Doesn't look like any Monarda I've seen. I vote for Perilla.

Not like any Monarda I've ever seen either, agree with Perilla.

I've looked at both perilla and monarda and it kind of looks like both. It kind of smells like licorice when you crush it if that helps.

Pics for comparison:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perilla_frutescens

http://garden.org/plants/view/78217/Shiso-Perilla-frutescens/

Which Monarda are you comparing? For ID purposes, be sure to look at pics on info sources, not pinterest/flickr/photobucket/blogs. They may or may not be labeled correctly.