Of the two, the second choice. The first is way too small. I think I'd keep looking for something with a little more height considering your bed. Check out the table lamps shown in ALLmodern. Com.

I wouldn't pick any of them. The second one is better in height (1st is too short) and the second doesn't have enough presence...it seems to flimsy. I am sure you can find better ones

I think the black ones are the right height but it would be nice to see a bit of black somewhere else in the space maybe a piece od black and white art

That's a very Mid-Century aesthetic (which I happen to love. Good job on the nightstands and bed). Frankly, either of those work. I would opt for the more functional ones. Which are more practical for waking up, reading in bed, etc?

You could also do wall-mounted ones to keep your horizontal surfaces clean.