What's staying, what's going?

I think a muted blue would be pretty. It's very calming.

I love layering neutrals and adding one soft tone in pillows or a throw blanket...here are a few of my favorite pillows...

Aqua throw pillows. Large art over bed and maybe taller lamps with color.

You need larger lamps for your nightstands...this would work with both color combinations..

That made me laugh out loud, I think it's a pillow under there lol, how tall are lamps supposed to be?

If the duvet has matching white euro shams..you need them...add accent pillows and throw...wall art and new lamps and your room will look great!

cant see your windows but I would add soft silk drapes...

Lamps can go, I just bought them today, they are 21 inches, I saw some that were also clear glass but they were 28 inch and thought they might be too tall?

The lamp I posted is 32" tall will give great light while laying in bed...when they get tall the base needs to be substantial to give a nice visual...

Pillow under there? Fess up!

For bedside lamps…I can’t measure for you…but I want under the duvet person to be able to read. (when he/she wakes up…trying to be politically correct).

This is a good example: shade is just a bit higher than the top of your headboard.

Definitely do a black shade and have it lined. Then light goes up and down and not through the shade which will turn the shade an ugly shade of pale.

Lamps can be between 26"-34" tall....and yes they can be taller than your headboard...:))

Any other suggestions of specific lamps or wall art? I really only like to get lamps at tj max or marshalls bc they are cheaper, and just having trouble finding art and lamps that tie together

Paint the walls some lovely color and get some throw pillows that are white and include the wall color and maybe a bit of a third accent color. You could use some art over the bed as well.

Art I posted is very budget friendly:)

Allmodern.com

Wayfair.com is great for lamps and you can add filters on color...price and height to help shop.

Thank you, I do like those paintings, I shop on wayfair often and saw some similar ones I there, I'm going to look at marshalls after work too! Wow celerygirl how did you do that? Thanks that helps visualize stuff!!

I use photoshop dear

Thoughts on these white ceramic lamps? I think they might look good w a nice flower painting

We've included here a few bedroom designs of ours that might help you with your bedroom dilemma. Take note of the artwork, paint colors, pillows, throws, rugs, and window treatments.

Which color headboard should I get??

Really like the white ceramic lamps you posted...simple and elegant:)

hard to tell on the headboards...but I would go with the gray..looks like the other one would be very ivory...but only from looking at the image here.

Please please please do NOT buy art from big box stores!

ONLY buy art from a place where the artist's name is listed.

Get art from places that benefit the artists themselves (so not a mass produced place like homegoods or any big store) the following sites have work from real artists but with affordable options

try:

etsy

20x200

Saatchi

society6

red bubble

risdworks

scad art sales

eyestorm

lumas

tappan collective

minted

McGee and co

Keep it white and simple!

I think I'm going to get these lamps, and ordered new bed!

Very good start...

Why spend 600 dollars on an art with a name when you can benefit yourself and get the same thing for 60

Yeah I couldn't afford $600 piece of art! Anyone think I should do the wall behind bed in slightly darker gray? I may just wait til new bed and lamps come in then decide...

Here is the new bed, any ideas for accent color for wall behind bed? Or if lamps should stay?

The bed in the first image looks so much taller? Can it be adjusted?

keep the lamps...you could do all white walls and add all neutrals with some color in art and accessories and throw..it would look beautiful! With a white wall the neutral headboard will really look nice...suprised you didn't get the gray?

Yeah it does look taller, didn't notice til you just mentioned it, it can't be adjusted :(, I was so close to getting the gray but then I went with this one last minute! Thanks for the advice! Seems to almost have a pinkish tint in the pic but not in person

A nice lavender...

Looking at the lamps are you wanting a more modern Mid-century style? Simple clean lines?

Here are some inspiration rooms..anything grab you?

Add a large piece of Art over bed and make it the focal point to anchor a room. A large piece of Art can really bring in a wave of deftness and add more color and life to your room. It acts as a style to your room.

Here's some suggestion for your wall you might like......to know more about my Art work and collections please visit my shop -

https://www.houzz.com/pro/poochoudhary/__public

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Those are all nice, I like the romantic look and feel, I have attached a pic that is more true to color, I'm thinking grayish pillows and possibly grayish rug, I do have the option of sending the lamps back free of charge which I am considering, just not sure if they are exactly what I'm wanting, they are the perfect height though

If you want a more romantic feel Than send the lamps back they are very modern style...this is the direction I would go..a touch of gold or scroll whitewashed for a french romantic look...goes great with your comforter!

Great pillows on Etsy.com

love these shams

I really like that shams, what do you think about any of these area rugs? Unfortunately I have a budget as far as lamps, rugs, pillows, so just have to watch what I'm spending but feel I can find something affordable and that will still work, may just have to look harder! What do you think about any of these rugs?

What size are you looking for?

8x10 area rug

I think your right,lamps are more modern and that's not really the feel that I'm wanting, and provably why they weren't sitting right with me, so I am returning the lamps, will continue searching for new ones about that height. Also I went ahead and ordered this rug, I think the beige rug I put in here(from a diff room) is fighting against the gray wall color and cream bed, I think the new grayish labendarish rug will work much better for what I'm wanting! Thanks for all the pointers!!

Be patient that rug is very contemporary/modern trendy I know we can do better! Plus that rug had bad reviews..only one star:( to be honest to save money that neutral shag rug you have is nice....when you start adding neutrals and gray's together with touches of Gold it will really work well...I would keep the rug you have...what is the budget for lamps?

Lamps would be $50 a piece at the most

All in sets of 2 for price shown!

Found this neutral Linen shams on Etsy...love them this woukd also help with layering The neutrals..gray and white onto the bed..so romantic too!

I do like the 2nd pic of lamps...they are out of stock but wil alert me when they come in

Out of stock with both finishes? Gold or gold leaf

The silver leaf

Gold is nice too..both would work well.