i love this bed but it does not say what color this particular item is on Houzz It states hand distressed linen this only tells me the material is Linen but what is the linen ? The actually one here what color is the wood? It does not state the color finish of the wood looks silver/ gold tone? also looks like a faux finish of some type and it also says there are other colors I cannot find the other colors as well. If not happy with this product is it returnable? and is there a return fee on this item