I'm not a colour expert, let's just get that said at the start lol.

Looking at Ben Moore's site, one of the suggested colours to go with perspective is a violet something or other. Clicking through to that, a similar color to it is called Celestia:

It's not what I would consider a traditional haint blue, but it seems like it would go well with your cabinets and walls. You could lighten it by 25 or 50% if it seems too dark.

Gorgeous colors, but putting them next to the BM Perspective turns them a bit green. I need to stay away from green (husband says no-no). I'm not tied to Ben Moore, open to any suggestions for a grayish-blue! Thanks for trying! @lindsey - the Celestia Blue is pretty, even though it is a tad lavender. I'm going to get a sample. Thanks for everyone's help! I have been working on this for months!

Does anyone have experience with SW Atmospheric? That looks pretty close. I found it searching "haint blue" on SW's site.

Perspective is a green based gray, so that influences how you see the bluer or violet based grays against it. It is similar, but slightly less green to SW Sea Salt.

Maybe message Lori Sawaya for information on purchasing one of her Haint Blue color formula. Or search her profile and check out her website and see if any of them are what you are looking for.

Thanks! I'm going to try SW Sleepy Blue. @justwantapool - I looked at her site a few weeks ago, nothing jumped out at me! But, thanks for the suggestion!

@The Cook's Kitchen - with the lighting in my kitchen, Perspective shows no green at all! The blue I chose (Lookout Point) turned greenish.