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Anybody Remember Miss Sherry?

8 years ago

I haven't posted on this forum in a long time. I've moved from my wonderful home in the country to Hattiesburg, where I now live in a 100 year old house in the Historic District. I love the house, and like being in my hometown, where my 90 year old mother and brother live, and not too far from my sister. Some of you may remember that my husband died in May, 2017, and my daughter in July, 2017, creating much upheaval in my life. I finally decided that, at my age, I needed to move from the country to be near the doctors, and I found out in the middle of moving that I needed doctors more than I realized. I have early stage lung cancer, I've had 5 chemotherapy treatments, and 25 radiation treatments with next week being my LAST week of treatments! There is no cancer anywhere (including lymph nodes) in my body except in my upper left lung. The prognosis for a full recovery is good.


So, I'm now wanting to get back to gardening. I had planted a small raised bed with Passiflora incarnata and Aristolochia tomentosa - there's a good chance I can get gulf frits on the passionvines, only a slim one I can get pipevine swallowtails on the others. Still, if you don't plant the host plants, how can you expect to get caterpillars?! I'm now planting a Persea palustris in case a spicebush or palamedes swallowtail happens by, and I have a Ptelea trifoliata ready to plant for giant swallowtails.

I also have a wild black cherry to plant for numerous leps - tiger swallowtails, red-spotted purples, cecropia moths, etc.


Unfortunately, at this point, this is all wishful thinking. I've only seen some duskywings, one red- spotted purple, and a black colored swallowtail from a distance - could have been any of the dark colored swallowtails, I wasn't close enough to ID it. This old part of Hattiesburg has experienced something of a 'gentrification' with many old homes having been restored, and I'm hoping that butterflies move back here, too. There are plenty of real big trees, including some tulip poplars (tiger swallowtails!) so that's a plus. And, I'd be happy to travel to find caterpillars in the field and bring them here to live on my host plants, at least once they're big enough to support cats. At this point only the passionvines (maypops) are big enough, and they're growing like weeds!


The other night I was sitting under the ceiling fan on my screened in front porch, with friends, and I saw a small sphinx moth hovering around the screen. I could only see its outline, so I couldn't ID it, but it was great to see it! And Friday I saw this gorgeous pandorus sphinx on the brick front of a hardware store in nearby Petal, MS -



I'm getting excited at the prospect of trying to increase the leps in this area. The people who live here are the type that would undoubtedly appreciate them, and I know I would!


I put up hummingbird feeders about a week ago, I thought I saw a hummer zipping away yesterday, and today I saw a male ruby throat feeding at the one in the back yard. Let's hope that's a good sign!


Sherry

Comments (15)

  • 8 years ago

    Welcome back! I am glad you are doing well and best wishes for continuing to do so. You were greatly missed around here. I saw several times the “Miss Sherry would know” come up.

    MissSherry thanked Iris S (SC, Zone 7b)
  • 8 years ago
    last modified: 8 years ago

    Oh Sherry! You've been through so much. I'm so very sorry for both your losses. I haven't been here in a long time because we just haven't had the butterflies we used to have, but things are looking up now. I just wanted to give you a big (((hug))) and say what a strong person you are, to have endured such great losses. And I wish you the best of luck with getting totally rid of the cancer. And good luck getting your new place in shape for all the butterflies and moths that I'm sure will love to visit you! Bless your heart!

    MissSherry thanked catherinet
  • 8 years ago

    I don't visit here very often, but I remember you and your wonderful advice very well. So sorry for all that you have been through, but so glad you are back. And I'm happy that you can spend time on something you love so much again.

  • 8 years ago

    You always did take the very best pictures, Sherry.

    I am so very sorry for your losses, my friend. I'll be thinking strong thoughts for a full recovery. Am looking forward to seeing you more around here.

    MissSherry thanked rhizo_1 (North AL) zone 7
  • 8 years ago

    Thanks all! I hope to have butterflies to photograph and post!

    The bird life is good here, with plenty of mockingbirds, cardinals, red-headed woodpeckers, Carolina wrens, bluejays, even cat birds, which I've never had in my yard or woods before.

    I plan on planting the Ptelea trifoliata soon - I'm not as fast as I used to be.

    Here's a picture of my old, high-ceiling house -

    Sherry


  • 8 years ago

    Ooooohhhh! It's gorgeous!

  • 8 years ago

    Thanks, Catherine! I love it!

    Sherry

  • 8 years ago

    'Got my first passionflower today -

    Sherry

  • 8 years ago
    last modified: 8 years ago

    Your house is absolutely beautiful!!! Love the floors and woodwork. The doggies are adorable.

    Very pretty flowers, Sherry! I just love the exotic look of them.

  • 8 years ago

    What a gorgeous home! I'm so glad your cancer prognosis is good. I lost my husband and father within 2 months of each other in 1986, so I can relate to how that throws your life into turmoil. Hattiesburg is such a pretty little town. I've often thought of moving to Mississippi to get away from Florida. I've been here way too long.

    That Pandora sphinx moth is GORGEOUS! People think I'm crazy for allowing the hornworms to eat up my brugs and daturas every year, but spinx moths are the only insect that pollinates those flowers, so it's well worth it. They grow back so fast.


    MissSherry thanked dirtygardener
  • 8 years ago

    I rarely check in to this discussion. A few years ago I visited often. I always loved your posts Miss Sherry. I followed you closely because I live in Gulfport. I thought that anything that you had was possible for me, too.

  • 8 years ago

    So good to see that you are back, Miss Sherry. Your experience, knowledge and advice have been sourly missed.

    It helps being around family, especially as one gets older and needs help from time to time. I hope things go well for you in your "new" home.

  • 8 years ago

    Thanks, Trudy and Tom! Unfortunately, Trudy, living in Gulfport doesn't guarantee that you'll get the same leps as people in the country outside of cities/towns. Hattiesburg has very few leps at this time of year, though I've noticed when I've visited Hburg in the past during peak butterfly season, you do see some butterflies, particularly gulf frits. I got a text with a picture from my previous neighbor in the country with a picture of the pipevine swallowtail caterpillars now on the pipevines in my old garden. It made me so 'homesick' for the cats I used to have!

    Tom, thanks for the kind words.

    Dirty gardener - Hburg is indeed a pretty town, and it has a lot going for it culturally for a town its size, USM and Wm. Carey College both being here. But I sure miss the leps in the country!!

    Rhonda, my passionvines are blooming all over now. 'Hope the gulf frits will find them eventually!

    Thanks to all of you who complimented me on my house - the high ceilings show off my old/antique furniture very well. And my dogs are SO sweet!

    Sherry

  • 8 years ago

    You probably knew that you were remembered; now you know
    to add, "...and loved". Thanks for updating us about yourself.

    Yes, importing will be necessary to get the wildlife sooner.
    So that you not have to travel, your neighbor could send eggs.
    (I know, only fritillary food in sufficient supply thus far.)

    I get nearby neighors to grow butterfly plants by giving flowers,
    then asking whether they would like a plant.
    I may delay mention of caterpillars, depending on anticipated
    receptivity to them. At time of mentioning, I say that
    they can be moved to my plants if recipients would prefer it.

    Your participation, even irregular, in a local gardening club
    would be infuential.
    No club? Organize one -- you could limit your ongoing role
    to that of lepidoptera plants consultant.
    Or arrange with teachers to visit schools with critters + plants.

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