i think they are also too white. maybe can change some more active tiles

i think the last one is more suitable for your style.

Did you see samples of these materials next to each other? I mean, the cabinets look quite a bit more yellow/green than the counter, and I can't tell whether it's the paint color or the lighting or what.

That is, agree that you appear to have a mismatch, but if your samples all looked ok, maybe something changed from when you ordered it?

Your cabinets do look creamy yellow Compared to the tile and countertop. What are you willing to do? Are these ordered cabinets or did you have them painted?

Ok do not panic! Do not make any design changes in a panic. Maybe your mind is having to accept the changes as maybe it’s not looking 100% yet how you want it to be. Been there done that.
A light grey grout can pull the colours from the counters. It’s hard to tell exactly what colour your cabinets are from the photo. You can mix your whites.
Is your lighting in? If not the colour tone of the light bulbs can change how things are seen.
Best advice if you can live with it for a couple of days do so

Thank you Zimmer! We need the grout, pendant lights, and need to fix the lighting in the kitchen. I was thinking a light gray grout.

Your advice is helpful. I am panicked and need a day or two to look at it with fresh eyes. :)