Preparing my house for sale, so I'm in the process of painting nice, attractive neutral colors. I was going with BM Abalone for a lot of my areas/rooms, but after painting my entry/hall, I'm reconsidering. The first floor of my house has pine trim, stained an amber color. I'm not loving what it does to the Abalone. The tones change a lot based on the light, time of day. But when it goes blue/violet, it seems to really clash with the wood trim.

Am I overthinking this? The second pic is another 90's house that stood out to me on Zillow - freshly painted, but the gray just looks "ugh" to me (even with the gray carpet). I want the paint to accentuate, not detract.

Do I need something with a warmer tone?