I'd say it was mislabeled. Looks more like a weeping blue atlas cedar.

Not blue enough for that one, grower was probably calling it instead a particular weeping version of Cedar-of-Lebanon. With it being in reality one of the two or more Cedrus deodara forms sold as such.

It does not need a taller stake. This is a better way to stake it.

Young plants sometimes take different form than their adult versions. If you are used to seeing the adult tree then a young tree may look different to you.

Emma - I hadn’t put in stakes yet when I took the pic, the stake in pic was what the the tree came with. I will leave it and hope it is a golden deodar. Without the stakes, the whole top droops over, that’s what worried me.

In addition to lacking the characteristic leaf coloration of weeping blue Atlas cedar plant asked about here has the slender leaf shape of Deodar cedar. With it being a weeping form serious initial staking may be needed for this example to produce a fully or even partly upright main stem in time.