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Gardening/Covid

6 years ago
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Gardening/Covid

I lost my mother to Covid. To backtrack my grandfather was the trigger who got me into gardening. Long story short. Because of obvious restrictions I'm glad my son and my husband have been helping me with gardening. They won't admit it, but they like it a lot!

I told them how rewarding it is to get out there for, exercises , fresh air, and look at the beauty of the flowers, birds, nature etc...But eventually they figured it out on their own. Now they want to help more than they ever did before. Compared to staying inside and everyone in another room on their electronic devices..In unprecedented times I think this is something valuable we can hang on to.

One of the best compliments was this young lady while my son and I went out there today and I was teaching him how rewarding and healthy it can be to be out there..The compliment was this young woman was taking photos of our garden.

She went on our property to take more photos, she was Asian but I'm not sure if she understood English. It doesn't matter I just gave a quick smile while she kept taking photos.

It doesn't matter your race or background, everyone is the same and I'm SO happy if someone takes the time to take photos of my garden! It truly made my day!!

Comments (16)

  • 6 years ago

    Marigold, I don't even know what to say, except I'm sorry for you, your Mom and your family. I'm heartened that at least you can find some solace from your garden.

  • 6 years ago

    What a terrible loss for you. This dreadful virus.

    I'm glad that your family has your garden to keep them aware that life is precious and we'll get past this.

  • 6 years ago

    I'm so sorry for your loss...

  • 6 years ago

    Wow, I'm sorry for the loss of your mother, that's just devastating.


    Thank goodness you have a garden and family around to help lift your spirits. It sounds like your husband and son are appreciating the gift you've given them, too.

  • 6 years ago

    Marigold - So sorry to hear about your loss. I'm sure your garden is just lovely, and glad that your husband and son are joining you in finding some joy and peace in gardening.

  • 6 years ago

    My most heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Marigold.

    Tending a garden is a refuge when our hearts are broken.

    Marigold33 NY-Z7 thanked flowersaremusic z5 Eastern WA
  • 6 years ago

    So sorry for your loss. We are in NY as well and it’s hard to explain to friends elsewhere the emotional trauma even though we luckily didn’t get sick from it. Gardening has been my escape as well. I bought more roses this spring than I should have. My neighbor who didn’t garden before is growing herbs on her patio. She explained that she just had to watch something grow to get through this period.

    Take care and look forward to seeing pictures of your garden!

    Marigold33 NY-Z7 thanked sbrklyn_7bny
  • 6 years ago

    Thank you kindly to each and every one of you. When we were out there

    our son picked a rose for cutting to bring inside. He chose Colorific so I'd like to share it.



  • 6 years ago

    Marigold, I am so sorry for your loss

    Losing a beloved parent is so incredibly difficult .I pray that you will find comfort and peace

    I find so much solace in having my garden and I am glad that you are finding that as well


  • 6 years ago

    Oh, Marigold, I'm so sorry for your loss. This awful virus is taking so many of our loved ones.

    I do agree that being in lockdown has had it's moments. I think a lot of people have slowed down and taken time to smell the roses!

    Marigold33 NY-Z7 thanked seil zone 6b MI
  • 6 years ago

    My condolences...losing a mother is so hard. Good you have your garden.

  • 6 years ago

    I'm sorry about the loss of your mother, I lost my father at a young age of 59 due to cancer. But this so called hoax killed 1,300 people in my town. Some of those people were in their 30's and 40's with no underlying conditions and they died. Two of them were firefighters. I know other people on more of a personal level compared to the covid support group I'm in who got extremely ill and almost died from covid. I know it happens but I don't know anyone who died from complications of the flu. If my mother didn't get covid of which she passed away from it 6 days following her diagnosis, she'd be here now. Aleksandra, you're free to think what you like but the fact remains this is a virus and it unquestionably affects people's health and it can be fatal.

  • 6 years ago

    Keep in mind the economy can recover and spring back, people who are gone can't. Regardless of thoughts on the virus iteself, I wrote this because of my mother's loss. I imagine she has a garden of her own in heaven and she's looking down on us. She'd want all of humanity to be kind to one another and to value the gift of life through these difficult times.


  • 6 years ago

    Marigold - breathe. This person is a fool. You have suffered a terrible loss to an uncaring virus. Nestle in with your family and your garden.

  • 6 years ago

    I am so sorry for your loss. When I lost loved ones, I p!anted a rose or other perennial in their memory. Every spring, they bring me great joy. Like the love we share in our families, it keeps growing even when we are apart. I wish you peace.