Choose the backsplash after the counter is in that is the only way to do this.

I usually agree to wait until the counter is installed and do feel it shouldn’t be ordered until after install.

Are the cabinets white or a light gray?

White cabinets, gray island. backsplash could take 3 weeks, so trying t get the order cooking

Three weeks is worth the wait. Seeing your counters with the backsplash samples will save you buyers remorse.

You should wait.....start looking at inspiration pictures to see which way you lean.

Either choice is safe and in your case I don’t think you can go wrong either way.

A kitchen can function for a long time without a backsplash. Wait until the counters are in and you can make a truly informed decision.

You really should wait. it's not a mistake you want to make.

just wait. your kitchen will still be in working order without the backsplash tile.

once the cabs / countertops are in and you see it all together, you may change your mind on what you want. Or, the color you thought you liked may not work anymore. But either way, you'll be sure of what it looks like so you can choose a tile w/confidence.

wait.

(and that's going to be a lot of white)