Go to a different paint store. I do this all the time at my local SW.

what brand of cabinets are they? you can get touch-up paint from manufacturer match that in finish for cabinets sherwin sayerlac or milesi you will have a better chance

Have you placed it up in position. On a piece that’s primed and w two coats and cured for a few days? or rest it up on something on top of the cabineT . You’ll get shadows and it will be different on vertical up at the ceiling position . What family of color are you in?

@rockin’ fine finish
The cabinets are showplace
I do have touch up paint. Are you saying to have Sherwin color match that?
@herbflavor I have tried that. It’s a white dove.

yes but in their commercial cabinet paint sayer lac