Light for Dinning light is 20inch diameter

3 pendant lights for the 12 ft kitchen island. Each light is 16inch diameter

It does depend on your house. In the photos, the simple rings seem too minimal, too plain...... ? Maybe because there are 4, not sure why.

What's your furniture like, etc... ?

this maybe?

https://www.amazon.com/Irregular-CHYING-3000K-6500K-Adjustable-Chandelier/dp/B08FHQXLKT/ref=sr_1_5?crid=3J3CPF17U7SBS&dchild=1&keywords=led+chandelier+light+fixture&qid=1613373713&sprefix=led+chand%2Caps%2C213&sr=8-5

Or just one over the island -

https://www.amazon.com/YIFONTIN-Pendant-Fixture-Hanging-Chandelier/dp/B07RLV3784/ref=sr_1_19?crid=3J3CPF17U7SBS&dchild=1&keywords=led+chandelier+light+fixture&qid=1613374025&sprefix=led+chand%2Caps%2C213&sr=8-19

To me is nice because it varies the shapes a little, from round to oval.

https://www.amazon.com/Chandelier-Contemporary-Lighting-Adjustable-Billiard/dp/B085967KVJ/ref=pd_vtp_4?pd_rd_w=T3GUr&pf_rd_p=55cbb45e-2534-4809-9135-12f41eecb852&pf_rd_r=GSMJAQ0DK86SB1FQX0TE&pd_rd_r=0ee7ffd0-ea12-4b48-9051-27ba82698667&pd_rd_wg=HjMPp&pd_rd_i=B085967KVJ&psc=1

----------------------------- 3 of this type?

https://www.amazon.com/Cubic-Pendant-Chandelier-Lighting-Fixture/dp/B07KSG39L7/ref=sr_1_72_sspa?crid=3J3CPF17U7SBS&dchild=1&keywords=led+chandelier+light+fixture&qid=1613374025&sprefix=led+chand%2Caps%2C213&sr=8-72-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUExSVZOTVFXNDZZOURDJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwMTY5NDk2M1VVVTQyNk1ESTVLOSZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNjQ0ODA4Rk1WNDVCNVdVRzkmd2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9tdGYmYWN0aW9uPWNsaWNrUmVkaXJlY3QmZG9Ob3RMb2dDbGljaz10cnVl

Your 3 hanging pendants- and 1 that doesn't hang ?

https://www.amazon.com/SUNMOO-Chandelier-Ceiling-6-Lights-Bedroom/dp/B08PDYLZYH/ref=sr_1_88?crid=3J3CPF17U7SBS&dchild=1&keywords=led+chandelier+light+fixture&qid=1613374025&sprefix=led+chand%2Caps%2C213&sr=8-88

I think they look ok together but are really too similar for my taste. Both are very unusual and may be too many 'stars'. The kitchen lights bring to mind the rings gymnasts use.

If that is your dining room, it is stunning!

What about something like these?

Thank you my island is 12ft long and was searching for big pendant lights. And found these were 16inches. But I am open to more suggestions as I cant understand how to select lights so they go together as the dinning and island are next to each other.

This is picture of model home. So we have 3 pendant lights over the 12ft long island and 1 over the dinning.

What is your dining table like?

This is my dinning table

Your table isn't large, the light fixture looks similar in size to what is in the model home, but I worry that 3 large island lights will overwhelm the space. The ones you chose aren't very large visually, so they wouldn't do that, but with a round table, a round chandelier and circular island lights...well, it's a lot of similarity. If you look at the first example I posted above, it's a huge island but the lights don't have to be huge to look right with it. Will you have can lights, also? If so, you should have plenty of lighting to see without having to have oversize island lights.

Yes we will have a lot of can lights. I was just confused what would look nice on a triangular dinning with island so close to it. With those pendant lights for the island you posted, what would look good for the dinning?

The table you have doesn't really need a light over it IMO its just something else that breaks up the sightlines. Also it's not on center with anything, I think it's well enough left alone. I would focus on pendant lights. I think the pendants you like will work well.