BM Grant beige would look good with your cabs, trim and floors and be a bit lighter than current color. If you want to go much lighter and know the color of your trim, you could try the next darkest color on that paint chip strip.

Thanks, that is one I am considering!

I would use the lightest color in the granite

B.M. Old Blue Jeans for the walls. Will go perfectly with the floor and the yellow in the granite. Change the rug runner and use more of the blue on the floor.

Agree with lightest shade from the granite.

Try Navajo White, Indian White or Natural Wicker (all Benjamin Moore). These are creams with an orange beige undertone that should not look too stark with your finishes!

I bet it would also help to change your cabinet hardware to a nickel or chrome finish.