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Decluttering, downsizing, still stressing

4 years ago
last modified: 4 years ago


I have developed some health conditions in the past couple of years. I am living in a small house with two large dogs and one space-consuming DH. The planned house addition and the kitchen remodel keeps being put ”on hold.

Feeling a bit stressed and out-of-control I’ve been downsizing ”things.” We’ve made several trips to the thrift stores with donations; given items to various friends, and I have parceled out nearly all my ”good” jewelry to nieces.

This week I bit the bullet and tackled the vintage sewing machines ”herd.” Oh my!

I don’t know if I’m relieved - or completely heartbroken - over the loss of these machines.

I made a big dent in the sewing machine inventory while freeing up needed space in my sewing room and closets.

Now I actually have space, mental and physical, and time to use the remaining machines.

My machine-guru friend has a list of people that want/need/appreciate these indestructible iron maidens

He took the Singer 42 cabinet and bench. Giving up that set hurt, but he knows a very worthy woman who wants, needs, and will use it to its fullest. It was given to me, “for free;“ we gave it to her “for free.”

This is a blessing for me; I I now have space for a chest of drawers to fit comfortably in the guest/sewing room.

He also took the:


(1) 1952 Pfaff 130-6

(2) 1954 Singer 202-2

(3) 1953 Singer 301

(4) 1957 Singer 401

(5) Kenmore 148.

(6) 1911 the Wilcox & Gibbs.

(7) I have found a separate home for the 1925 Singer 128 La Vencedora.


My car was stuffed to overflowing. Wes loaded and packed all the machines in like sardines. I drove myself to town for the first time in months. The trip completely wore me out but made me feel good, too too.

If these machines make others as happy as they’ve made me, then it’s “a good thing“ to pass them on.

These machines had been traded and bargained for, adopted, and snatched from the curbside! Very little cash outlay was involved.

Just so you don’t think I’m a Pitiful Pearl, I am not! I can still do piecework, quilting, sewing, and mending on my “few” remaining machines.

I still have:


(1) 1954 Singer 15-91 - It may be adopted out, too.

(2) 1958 Singer 185k3 in a cabinet. This was DH’s mom’s machine and is his to keep or give away.

(3) 1924 Singer 15-30, the beautiful “Tiffany” model. it has a motor, but can be treadled, also.

(4) 1912 Singer 127-Sphinx in a treadle cabinet. It was my Grandmother’s and is actually at my niece’s house in Arkansas.

(5) Singer 221 Featherweight ❤️

(6) My modern, computerized Bernina 230PE Activa.

(7) and a Pfaff Coverlock Serger 4850.

Next up...I’m doing ONE box from the basement.

Comments (24)

  • 4 years ago

    Oh my! I only have 3 machines including the Singer 401 that was my Mom's...what a work horse! They were one of the best ever made. I know just how you feel...I haven't been able to part with any of them.

    caroline94535 thanked Annie Deighnaugh
  • 4 years ago

    OH wow - I envy your love of sewing machines and your collection. I know you're sad but are also glad that you appreciate the fact that they've gone to good homes. It must be nice to have that part of your belongings sorted out. As you say Now I actually have space, mental and physical, and time to use the remaining machines.

    caroline94535 thanked blfenton
  • 4 years ago

    I am sure your generosity will bring much joy to many people. Knowing how to sew and create beautiful garments and home furnishings is wonderful.

    I remember how happy my grandmother was with her new c-1975 Pfaff.

    Brava for making room for new things and experiences in hour own house.

    caroline94535 thanked Zalco/bring back Sophie!
  • 4 years ago

    As a sewing machine enthusiast, I feel for you. I hope you do better and that your hwalth continues to improve. There are a lot of us who appreciate the vintage sewing machines. I am familiar with most that you have described. Your sewing machines will find an appreciative new caretaker, I am confident.


    Meanwhile, you get to open your wings in a new direction. Enjoy your expanded space, caroline. As you say, you can still quilt and enjoy needlework.

    caroline94535 thanked petalique
  • 4 years ago

    Wow - that's an impressive collection, even after downsizing, you might be mistaken for a shop 😃

    I love old all metal Singers and have 3 in working condition, along with my mom's old Featherweight, along with tons of fabrics and notions and patterns I've collected over the years. I admire your strength of resolve to get rid of so much. I know I need to myself 😏

    caroline94535 thanked carolb_w_fl_coastal_9/10
  • 4 years ago

    Good for you! Too many possessions does weigh us down. I'm a big fan of Döstädning, or Swedish death cleaning - cleaning things out so your loved ones don't have to once you are gone. I've been slowing working on it for three years. One more closet to go and I've been through everything at least once. Then I'll keep going through things until I'm at the level I want. Good luck with your clearing out.

    caroline94535 thanked bev2009
  • 4 years ago

    WOW! That's an impressive sewing machine collection. I only own two machines. That's plenty for me! I don't want to lose the space. Giving the machines to people who will use them is so nice and generous of you. Good machines are hard to come by...you've given someone a way to improve their lives! You have a BIG heart! ❤️

    caroline94535 thanked User
  • 4 years ago

    It makes it so much easier to say goodbye to them when you know they are going to good homes. I recently dropped off a few boxes of sewing notions, fabrics. zippers. etc, for a community house’s sewing classes.

    I still have Mom’s Necchi. I wonder if it’s what she sewed her wedding dress on in the early ’50s? I need to find a good home for it.

    caroline94535 thanked bpath
  • 4 years ago

    What an impressive collection! Now that you feel so free, I’m sure it will be easier to ’let go’ of others in the future as your time and inclination permits. Thankfully you have a friend, your guru, helping you find good homes. Just think, if you werent around, your kids would likely be lost as to what to do. Hopefully this will relieve your stress.

    caroline94535 thanked OutsidePlaying
  • 4 years ago

    good for you! so many people must be very grateful to you for your generosity. I've been working on going thru boxes and closets etc myself in recent years. I don't want my kids to be burdened with it when I'm gone. I have tons of stuff I don't need / will never use again. clothes, craft supplies, sewing supplies, books etc - and I'll be boxing / bagging them up for someone who can use them. my hands can't do those things anymore and my brain agrees with my hands. I seldom cook anymore (just for me) so even most cookbooks are going.

    caroline94535 thanked desertsteph
  • 4 years ago

    Caroline, your post strikes home here.

    Age (89) and health issues too, signal a need to do some major clearing. I have three machines and use only one regularly. One could easily be rehomed.

    My sister died last year and clearing out her house was a wake up call and I began purging here with loads to the thrift store. But as Bev said, time for a second or third go round. The hardest part to let go is fabric. I have way too much and while my daughters do sew, they don’t quilt, so all this cotton needs a new home. A lot of craft supplies went to a great grand daughter. She was thrilled.

    It really is almost painful to part with possessions but time to ’rip off the bandaid’ and make things easier for those who will have to do it later.

    I hope your health issues improve, that is a big part of the stress. I know!

    Theresa

    caroline94535 thanked nannykins
  • 4 years ago
    last modified: 4 years ago

    I hope your enjoyment of the new-found space in which you can create, and the happiness you brought to others' lives with your generosity far outweighs your anxiety over the changes. You're doing the hard work to accomplish the goal you started. Give yourself time to breathe and get used to it. Then play in your new workshop, free to embrace what you've made.

    caroline94535 thanked rob333 (zone 7b)
  • 4 years ago

    Yeah, I have some machines that need to go, too. It's sometimes hard to let go of stuff. At some point, I realized I'm not going to fix those machines or use them. I still have several to go, though. I cleaned out a bunch of my fabric and unfinished projects and sent them to Project Linus. I still have a long way to go, though.

    bkay

    caroline94535 thanked bkay2000
  • 4 years ago

    Carry on, Caroline!! Nice collection, machines finding good homes. You inspire me.

    caroline94535 thanked socks
  • 4 years ago

    I use my 37 year old sewing machine everyday. I do have a back up, just in case, same machine. I have been given others and they have never been used. I too am getting rid of them for more space. Good luck with the rest of you downsizing, i know it is a lot of work.

    caroline94535 thanked Judy Good
  • 4 years ago

    MAJOR step forward, Caroline! I'm especially glad to read that you got out of the house and into town. I know what it's like to feel tired but happy, once you've accomplished something. Rest and recoup, then enjoy *using* space that was locked up in dead storage.

    caroline94535 thanked chisue
  • 4 years ago

    Fourteen sewing machines?? Thats a lot. i have one, a White that i use on rare occasions. It weighs a ton.

    caroline94535 thanked dedtired
  • 4 years ago

    I have zero sewing machines and never sewed but I am impressed at your decluttering. I was an antique collector for 45 years and need to pull off the bandage because my kids are not interested in anything except maybe a very few family pieces.

    caroline94535 thanked lily316
  • 4 years ago

    I just had this discussion yesterday with my grandaughter. i told her not to get rid of the Kenmore which I had purchased in 1971, if (or more likely, when) I'm gone My other machines, the Husqvarna Viking Epic and Designer Diamond, along with my 2 Featherweights (one black one white) are great machines, but if I have a tough to sew project needing heavy needle penetration, the Kenmore is my go to.


    In addition, I have two ancient sergers, my Bernina 2000DE which I love, and the Elna 927, which I dislike intensely.


    She has used my Epic to both sew and embroider, but if that's not where her future interests lie, then definitely keep the Kenmore and unload the rest.

    caroline94535 thanked blubird
  • 4 years ago

    Wow, I'm impressed. I bet it did hurt to let go of so many machines but hopefully they went to loving homes.

    caroline94535 thanked grammyp
  • 4 years ago

    Kudos to you. It's got to feel good.

    caroline94535 thanked fran1523
  • 4 years ago
    last modified: 4 years ago



    This is a picture of a Singer 42 cabinet and matching storage bench, like the one I shared. The woman that received it was also given the Singer 201-2 machine, its original paperwork, and all its accessories like the one below.



  • 4 years ago

    I love that cabinet. I bought one, but it was in bad shape, so I had to trash it. My old Singers are my favorite machines. They never give me trouble. They just keep on going and going and.....

    bkay

    caroline94535 thanked bkay2000