I do love white walls, but with the colours you have I think light grey with charcoal trim on the window, these colour shoud look great with the bench tops and you can add colour accessories and maybe a roller blind on the window.

How light of a grey?

I'm in aus

Its Taubmans Solitude its a great colour and because it light and crisp your husband might like it too.

Blues go with yellow, if you like blue. Could choose a blue you like in similar tone to walls.

The cupboads would look good in white with those bench tops they are lovely!

A blue-gray tone tends to enhance the whiteness in the cabinetry.

This is quite a neutral base so any color chosen would work.

I'd ask what I always ask: What colors do you have in the rooms surrounding the kitchen? It always looks nice when there is a flow of color from room to room. If there is a dining room or dining table, what does it look like? Wood? Chrome? Are there curtains in a surrounding area that have a color you'd like to pick up?

Dytecture is right, you could almost go with any color.

Nice blues too!