This image (not my kitchen) is more true to what the tile looks like to my eye in the space.

the bit of green on the wall is nice I thought. You can get a runner or two w some greens. It will be tough if you dont want a color, because the counter and window trim is so white and the cabinets and floor are warm....... the backsplash is just neutral to my eyes and the color on the wall is such a small area I'd leave it. You can bring in sample paint cards and prop them up to start the search. You're just going to have to decide a "coolish white" as in the counter vs. the "warmth" of the cabs and floor. Is the green all that bad? .

In the photos your cabinets look off white, the trim and counter look white, the backsplash is grayish ( it IS beautiful), plus the floor and the cabinets are each marching to their own drummers.

Do not just select a 'pale warm grey' paint. Take several actual tiles to the paint store to match the color.

Thanks both. I should specify, as of now the floors are unfinished (that's happening next week). I also just found out that the window trim that you see just has primer on it. The trim paint will be Ben Moore mayonnaise.

I picked this color by taking tiles to the store. Isnt it better to try samples in the actual space? I ordered a ton of samplize samples that are coming today to hopefully figure it out.

You are right, the current green does not work. I would go with your upper cabinet color on the walls, or a lighter version of your tile color. The counter, window trim and ceiling already all look to be different whites, in addition to lower cabinets with movement and off white uppers...I would not add one more different element.