The good news is that ‘sets’ are passe. Find two nightstands you love that match in scale but are painted, or maybe the wood matches but they are open on legs, or they are entirely different - brass with glass tops. A collected room feels much more current versus a perfectly matched set that clearly came from a showroom.

Thank you I will do that!

Perhaps if we saw more of the room we'd be able to be more specific with our suggestions.

The room is changing because we r moving and I will have new comforter etc

I understand but what does your headboard look like?