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White or gray cabinets??

2 years ago




Hi! Having a hard time deciding on which cabinet color to go with. White or gray. The photo with the gray cabinets is the layout of our kitchen (we are only doing one stack of upper cabinets not double). White subway tile backsplash, white quartz countertops and brownish gray luxury vinyl flooring (the third sample in the photo with the gray cabinet). Thoughts?

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  • 2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    I never really thought about the farmhouse look. We thought black hardware with the gray would look nice vs gray with nickel .. but with the white cabinets im not sure but if we tire of the hardware finish that should be easy enough to swap out!

  • 2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    With so many decisions it can be overwhelming. Think big picture and how all the spaces will all connect. Hopefully you are choosing based on actual samples in the showroom and have lined up combinations next to each other. Are you getting help/advice from their consultant? FYI: If you end up not liking the hardware, it‘s not inexpensive to replace and your lighting and faucet may no longer work as nicely.

    Regarding the rug: I think it‘s a mistake not to continue the same flooring into the great room (both visually and for practical purposes with 3 children). If it‘s cost, I’d save somewhere else that’s not as important and suggest lighter LVP. If you decide on carpeting, hopefully there are other types/quality options and match to kitchen flooring‘s undertone.





    sparklebean thanked Maureen
  • 2 years ago

    I agree with Maureen. Lighter floor, no carpet.

  • PRO
    2 years ago

    First I assum the white kitchen is yours and please take those cabinets to the ceiling. As for white or gray why are those the only choices ?I see issues with layout that should be more of a cooncern first if getting new cabinets . I love gray but not for cabinets , first grays are hard to get right when all together and the floor will be hard to choose the right gray. I have to say white quatz , white tile boring and honestly I think very quickly will be that dated thing everyone wants to avoid . First go look at some real stones htat have awesome colors in them to work with . Backsplash is along with wall color the last choices you make after all the rest is in. What is youractual style the white kitchen tells me nothing. Show us your LR that will tell us more . Post the pics here in a comment DO NOT start another post .

    sparklebean thanked Patricia Colwell Consulting
  • 2 years ago

    I vote for white all over except for the island - that one in gray. Consider NOT going with gray floors. A nice medium to light color would be lovely.

    sparklebean thanked nikkync
  • 2 years ago
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    Is this a new build? so the layout in the photo will be your new kitchen? So none of the photos is your home correct?

    sparklebean thanked Home Interiors With Ease
  • 2 years ago

    Yes this is a new build. The gray photo i posted is of the layout that we are going with for our kitchen. At the moment we are only planning on having 42 in upper cabinets. When we built our current home in 2014 i really wanted bright white cabinets but that wasnt an option. This is our current kitchen in all its lived in glory!


  • 2 years ago

    My thought with the carpet in the great room is to make the great not only cozy but to separate the space a little bit from kitchen to great room.. but i am not opposed to just doing lvp and a large rug? The library off to the side of the foyer is going to have carpet and french doors otherwise the remainder of the first floor will have the lvp (kitchen, mud room, foyer, dining room). This is our layout. The red is where i am considering putting the great room carpet and a view of the great room from the kitchen.. (this is of the model home -but same layout.



  • 2 years ago

    Continue the LVP throughout..no carpet..this is a open concept so LVP with a large comfy rug for the great room…also no carpet in the Den/library….continue that LVP throughtout. Thanks for the extra info…very exciting time with a new build.

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  • 2 years ago

    Agree with Westcoast Hopeful!

  • 2 years ago

    I chose a gray kitchen. I fell in love with gray cabinetry after a trip to Colonial Williamsburg Virginia. Gray is a classic color for a kitchen; and has “stood the test of time”! Best of luck on your journey!

  • 2 years ago

    Before you make a decision, check this link out! https://www.thespruce.com/beige-kitchen-cabinets-7642349

  • 2 years ago

    I would rethink the flooring choice. Notice that the inspo photos you posted have medium brown, not grey, floors. White subway tile with a medium brown floor will be timeless and means you can go with any color cabinet your heart desires. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnFZig_BaJT/

    sparklebean thanked C P
  • 2 years ago

    Just an FYI - grey has been in vogue for quite a while now & is becoming much less popular. It could definitely date a project. A white kitchen will never go out of style.

    sparklebean thanked Marilyn
  • 2 years ago

    We are in process of a small new build, we chose a creamy white for cabinets and a medium dark LVP. Small house with woods around us. Chose white shades for walls and will add color in other ways.

  • 2 years ago

    Hello. I’m building a new home and I’m stumped on my kitchen cabinetry choices. What are your thoughts of creamy white cabinets satin finish with Arctic white quartz counters and this Moss green matte finish with oatmeal stain for my island? My hardwood floors will be 4” white oak with a clear poly matte finish. I love green and I think it’s a neutral green, but wanted it to be timeless!

  • 2 years ago

    I think it sounds lovely!! I like the color green you chose too

  • 2 years ago

    I am doing a Coastal traditional vibe in my home. I didn’t want that color to look country.

  • 2 years ago

    Thank you for your thoughts

  • 2 years ago

    Since this thread is hijacked..........That is green? It looks muddy.

  • 2 years ago

    Yes, it’s moss green

  • 2 years ago

    Matte finish maybe a satin finish on wood might look crisper??

  • 2 years ago

    Thread was not hijacked. I changed my contact name.

  • 2 years ago

    I didn’t want my first and last name out there thank you

  • 2 years ago

    @ Lisa Fonseca: It is customary to make a new post with your own questions and not "hijack" or "piggyback" off of others. Please consider that for any future posts.

    @Original author: I do not think gray works with a darker brown flooring. I would do a sandy/creamy beige-ish floor and then you can mix and match with white cabinets, gray island and backsplash. Black OR nickel fixtures will be fine imo.

    sparklebean thanked hollywaterfall
  • 2 years ago

    Oh, I am sorry. I will start my own conversation. Thank you. I didn’t know.

  • 2 years ago

    We just finished a kitchen remodel, went with white cabinets and a navy blue island. We have a small kitchen though so did not want too much dark color in there.


    sparklebean thanked Terri Reid
  • 2 years ago

    Thanks all I am feeling pretty good about the white cabinets with the brown lvp and will still probably do the gray but for the island. Still debating about the carpet in the great room idea but saw a lot of lovely plush rugs in the store yesterday evening that just might further convince me. The next debate is to upgrade all of the bathroom cabinets to white. We were originally going to do a dark brown umber (level 1) in the bathrooms but im thinking the same white cabinet (upgrade) throughout would be better and brighter. There will be a full bath on the main floor, and upstairs there will be the master, a jack and jill and a prince(ss) suite.



  • 2 years ago

    Honestly lighter flooring is your friend. No carpet, it completely ruins the point of the open concept plan you’ve chosen.

    sparklebean thanked WestCoast Hopeful
  • 2 years ago

    What climate do you live in? If it is a rainy/cloudy area and you have limited natural light in the kitchen. I would stick with a warm white. You can always use bronze/gold/black finishings to create extra warmth and design. After living in a dark home and cloudy climate for over 3 years, I am now getting rid of the gray-green walls and honey oak cabinets. Things are looking much brighter, lighter, and larger. Good luck!

  • 2 years ago

    I live in Michigan so yes there are a lot of long gray days in the winter! We have off white cabinets black granite and dark brown floors right now and yes there are definitely days the kitchen feels dark!

  • 2 years ago

    It's going to be lovely!

    sparklebean thanked happyleg
  • 2 years ago

    Sparklebean…I live in Michigan too…what area? we are in Bloomfield Hills.

  • 2 years ago

    Hello fellow Michigander! We currently live in Shelby Twp (right outside of Rochester) and are moving to Macomb Twp! I do love that mega Target on Telegraph!

  • 2 years ago

    We lived in Shelby! 26 and Van Dyke off Aurora Park…it has been about ten years ago. My mom lives in Macomb! off M59 by Lakeside Mall…small world! yes we are forever Michiganders! we have lived here in Bloomfield Hills and still have not went to that Target🤷🏼‍♀ I am in Macomb all the time caring for my mom.

  • 2 years ago

    Choose any color you like. If and when you sell the new owners can decide what colors they want. I personally and both of my daughter's like gray. My cabinets are wood with gray stain on the top and black stain on the bottom. The stains let the wood grain show through.

    Our $ was tight so I found a very pretty wood grain in natural wood colors of laminate. It works perfectly for my husband and I. The carpenter beveled the edges which made it even nicer. I use pledge on it as it helps to repel dirt and spills and keeps the counter top Shiney. I'm also thinking about putting a floor restorer type wax on it.

    I also like greens Actually it's my favorite color. Moss green and sage are nice compliment colors in my opinion.

    Just my thoughts

    Have fun do what You want. It's your home that you will see every day. If you get tired of something you can always change it. In fact we have been in this home that we had built six years ago with the same color on all the walls and ceilings in the whole 1750 sq ft.

    The color looks white but actually it is a soft light gray. I should have gone a little more gray. Anyway I am working on one room at a time changing the colors of the walls and some furniture in the living area and dining area

    This is our retirement home so if we don't change things now we won't be able to physically.

    I'm already disabled due to three hip surgeries on the same hip caused by the first doctor

    I keep rambling so I will say goodnight. Congratulations on your new home. Remember it's yours decorate The way You want it.

    sparklebean thanked HU-874719817
  • 2 years ago

    I went to the tile showroom today and was able to look at samples of the modern white ash (and the other two colors) for the backsplash. Lyra quartz for the counter tops



  • 2 years ago

    When you are doing something that is costly, going with classic finishes is always a big help. I work in historic restorations and have renovated several old house kitchens. To appeal to modern families, the kitchen has to be top notch, but there is no reason it cannot be timeless. If you have dark stain on your hardwood floors, the most cost effective and long term solution is to refinish them and then just put on a tough varnish. My floor refinishing guy charges less per square foot to do this than it costs to do LVP (unless you find a big sale and lay it yourself). Natural wood is far more durable than LVP and will keep the value of your house higher. It is not trendy, which LVP is going to be seen as in no time. It also hides scratches, resists stains, and is easy to maintain. I restore wood floors whenever possible, always natural - to fix a scratch or traffic pattern wear, it is a small matter of sanding a bit and putting on more varnish. And natural wood variations do not show normal day to day dirt and fuzz like dark floors (which are a nightmare!). Then I would go with a classic color for your cabinets - gray will go out of style soon and already is. The shaker style doors you chose are timeless, but I would go with a knob on them instead of a pull. That way, you can change out the hardware that is trendy and have so many more options later on. The most choice going forward will be in knobs, but drawers are fine to do a 3" spaced pull of any kind - there are so many choices for those (I prefer bin pulls, which are also available in the standard spacing). I would also go with a white, cream, or oyster (cool off-white that is more faintly taupe than gray) enamel paint finish at least on the top cabinets if not all of them, and if you want contrast, either a mid brown (mahogany) stain on the bottom cabinets or add contrast with other elements that are easier to replace. Stained cabinets are more resistant to showing wear - the dings and scratches that are normal are much easier to touch up. You could use a color on the island, which can be a nice accent, and then you just have that piece to change if you decide to later on. Backsplash tile is also a pain to replace, but less expense and trouble than refinishing or replacing cabinets. If the cabinets are a timeless color, you can change the whole room with textiles, rugs, window treatments, lighting, art, wall paint colors, etc. For countertops, I still like granite best because it can handle hot pans directly placed on it, is crazy durable, and comes in a huge array of colors and patterns that can mimic soapstone, marble, and pretty much anything. It costs less than quartz, which doesn't have many benefits to compete with it. Here, you can introduce gray without trend - granite is a natural material and has its own integrity. We put honed black granite into one of the houses I did and it looks just like soapstone but is bombproof. Another house has a white granite that has a marble-like feel. I think quartz looks fake - it is not a natural material. I like to extend the stone backsplash up to about 8 or 9" - it is a historic, classic and rich look and will not go out of style like our current "no backsplash, only tile" trend. It also means that you may not need tile backsplash in addition, and can add paint, bead board (another totally historic classic material), pressed tin - the possibilities are endless. I have been putting granite on the wall behind the stove too, though tile or even stainless steel works well too (and you can get lovely shelves or utensil rod/hook accessories for stainless steel panels that will make your kitchen look like a chef's). You can never go wrong with a historic look; it never goes out of style and can be endlessly played with using changes in lighting fixtures, hardware, paint colors, textiles, and other easy to replace and less expensive items.

    sparklebean thanked Beth Cragle
  • 2 years ago

    My kitchen remodel was in 2018. I was facing the same situations...and a budget. I love my kitchen. I have white subway tile from Daltile, Quartz counter called Vanilla from Arizona tile. I went with BM White Dove uppers and BM Indian River for the lowers. I had to work with existing very light travertine floors. My hardware is Amerock (sp?) Esquire line in gunmetal. Not very expensive from Home Depot. Best of luck !

    sparklebean thanked patrcia48
  • 2 years ago

    Lyra can look a bit busy..here are a few samples.


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  • 2 years ago

    Lyra was to busy for me. I went with Vanilla by Arizona Tile. More subtle.

    sparklebean thanked patrcia48
  • 2 years ago

    It looks like the company we are going through for the countertops is Silestone. These are their options.


  • 2 years ago

    Miami Vena..looks nice…but you need to hold all the samples together in person to see if it is a good fit.


  • 2 years ago

    Thank you Miami Vena was our initial choice but we thought it looked too plain when we originally saw it in person. i cant wait to go back to the design studio to see everything together!

  • 2 years ago

    Take photos..would love to see them all together.🤗

  • 2 years ago

    Will do!

  • 2 years ago
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    Ok! Here is what we came up with! White cabinets with the dark gray for the island . We are going to do LVP on the entire lower level in toasted taupe (the color under the white cabinet). Backsplash is white hearth ash and the quartz is Miami Vena. Master and main bath get white cabinets with cabris fair ceramic tile. The kids bathrooms are getting the brown cabinets (we might paint them - my oldest daughter really wants a pink bathroom). I forgot to take a photo of the carpet but it is the same as the one i previously posted. I am happy with our choices and thank everyone again for all of their help! The house should be complete some time in April or May. 😊






  • 2 years ago

    Dark gray

  • 2 years ago

    Everything looks great for the kitchen! concerned about the brown cabinets for the bathrooms? always continue the same color cabinet throughout the home…all white..or dark grey instead of brown….make sure to stop back in and post you completed home! Very excited for you🤗

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