I think you are going to have to go with a dark color on the floor.

Your cabinets are a medium reddish brown. For contrast, you should go lighter or darker.

Since you're doing red oak, lighter will probaby go pink, which you may not like. Darker will cover up the pink.

You might be able to get the red oak to work in a natural color with a water-based stain (which would not add yellow). You'll want to talk to your flooring person about what they can do.

Get a good robotic floor vacuum and do the floor graphite to match the dark vein in your stone. Costco has a Shark model in the Feb sales book. These can't be new floors, are they.

The pink tones in the stone would coordinate with plain,m no stain, clearcoated, red oak.