I’d be cautious about white and grey counters, if they are cool toned, with your warm colored floor. If you can find something in a warm white or cream tone, that might work. Also, if you want to lighten things up, how is your lighting? Do you need more lights or brighter bulbs?

Leaning more towards a warmer white counter with maybe some gold/taupe tones to work with the floor. The current cabinets have too much yellow in them so looking for a brighter white that isn’t too blue/cold.

its hard to tell anything...the one small window is not giving much natural light. the walls are too dark..and the under cab strip lights are very yellow it appears.. So painting the walls....changing of the lighting where you can and after that I would change the backsplash....then see how things shift. Cant even see any lighting in the ceiling and no pendants. I would not paint the cabinets for simply another shade of white until all the simpler corrections are completed.

Better pics to show lighting. All of natural lighting is in kitchen dining area. The cabinets need new paint as they are pretty beat up. Likely going with a white/off white subway tile.

It's a complicated case since you have the gray walls, brown counters, and pink-tan floors.

You might have success looking at colors that are actually very pale greige.

check out Maria Killam's and Kylie M.'s blogs for discussions of colors and suggestions to try.

https://mariakillam.com/the-best-neutral-paint-colours/

https://www.kylieminteriors.ca/4-steps-pick-the-right-white-for-your-trim-cabinets-or-walls/